Michael I used Southern Community Bank (Kernersville) because that is where I keep my CDs and various checking accounts. I REALLY like the small bank feel, they treat you like a real person and had good rates.
Here is a quick warning...SUPER LOW rates that you see advertised are often because they are charging SUPER high loan origination fees, points up front, etc. They are working every angle and you will pay for the privledge of that "super low rate."
However with all that said IF you are going to stay in the house for at least 10 years or more then the 'effective' interest rate will even because that low rate has a chance to work. So many folks don't realize their "effective" rate on that loan is much higher than advertised and even the APR they show you ignores certain of these fees.
Ok, lets make this more simple, if you have to end up paying $5-6000 in various points, origination fees, processing fees, fees to xyz, etc and land a 4% loan...you have to consider the fact that paying $1-2,000 in fees and 5.5% is a MUCH better idea IF...you are going to make a change in a few years anyway.
If you are gonna live there 30 years and pay this house off, then the 4/5k is evened out and is ok....but for most folks this is not really true.
LSB (Newbridge now) was 4.75% for 15 years the other day and 5.75% for 30 yr fixed I believe. That is about realistic... stick with a REPUTABLE lender because of the "fees" issue, you might pay an extra .25 or even .50 or more but trust me when I tell you, you really ARE paying more to get that low rate (and thus effectively paying the same rate or more as the reputable bank)
SoComm will sell off your loan, usually to Wells Fargo, which is one of the largest lenders out there.
One final thought, ColdwellBanker Mortgage, a 30 minute 1-800ph call, approved right there on the phone (no cost from what I remember for that tentative approval) and they will give you the rate. If you decided to go with em, then you start giving them documentation and the fee and as long as what you told em on the phone is true (income / debt is correct) then all is good.
But locally, SoComm or LSB would be my first choice, the small bank feel will really help you / of course you may want to consider moving your banking to them as well. Trust me when I tell you they will treat you MUCH nicer than Walkalloverya or other big banks.