His profile does show that it should send emails immediately on replies to subscribed threads.
The only things I can suggest would be to verify that your email address is correct (click here to check) and to check your spam/junkmail folder to make sure that AOL isn't filtering out your NC4x4 emails.
Still not getting emails, checked to see if my email was right, checked to see if i still had the instant email notification checked, and I don't have any sort of spam blockers?????
You may not get one as soon as a message is posted. You will only get an email when there is 10 emails queued up. So if your message is number 1 and it takes a few hours to get atleast 10 messages it will be a few hours before it gets to sending your message. We have to do this so it will not overload the hosting company's smtp server and they ban us from send out emails.