I have been in a somewhat similar situation recently.
The good me says never make assumptions about a person untill you have walked a mile in their shoes......
The realistic me says treat others as they treat you....
The normal me says I have no influence over the outcome of another person's health, so F them for being a dick.
I would guess the respectable way to treat other people, regardless of how they treat you, is a realistic semi good me.......
