Not wife yet, but:
Pushes you to make a leap of faith by leaving a stressful job to step backwards in your career to improve yourself.
Pushes you to achieve your dreams of building a shop to do stuff in that helps you relieve stress and makes you happy.
Contributes to achieving your dreams together of setting yourselves up for the future.
Pushes you to just go after the stuff you want in life.
Just all around your best friend that you couldn't ask for a better person to be in your life. In addition to all the spoiling she does for me.