This is very common for many cars and trucks. Think of it this way: You have the proper amount of brake torque balance on the front and the rear, but you have different pad sizes, different caliper locations, etc., for the same pad compound on the front and rear. So the amount of pad pressure for pad area can be different on the front and the rear (likely more pressure per area in the rear with the smaller pad), and the center of the pad swept area can be at a different radius in the rear, which means that the rear pad may see a higher rotational velocity under braking then the front because of the different radius. There's also the significant matter of the front and rear pads being a different temperature under normal street driving conditions, which really changes based on how much braking energy needs to be shed. Pad temperature difference has a big effect on pad wear, and it's very likely that the rears are spending more time in the temperature range that isn't as good for pad wear for that particular pad compound.
You would have to spend a huge amount of time under wheel slip conditions that would trigger the stability control. Unless you live in Alaska and your daily commute involves a shitload of wheel slip every day, I don't think that would contribute at all.