I think a lot of that is going to depend on several things. I just fisished putting a 231 krawl box in my XJ. Haven't had a chance to test it yet, however...........
Chip, uonover on this board, has a 231 krawl box/D300 setup in his rig. He is a VERY large CJ, stretched with tons, 44s, V8, and LOTS of tools. Needless to say he's heavy. He has had a couple of problems but nothing that couldn't be fixed. He did crack a case when the whole weight of his rig came down on it but that's to be expected! I think his issues relate to weight and use of skinny pedal.
Austin, SPOA87YJ on this board, is running a 231 krawl box/231 combo in a 4.0L YJ, tons and 38" TSLs. He has had a couple of shifter issues but no actual breakage.
I don't know who told you "doubling 231/300 aren't so great" but I would bet it's not someone thats running the como in their rig. IMO the front half of the 231, which is what you are using with the krawl box, is plenty stout enough to stand up to 6 cylinder power and 38"ish tires. 'Course I'll have more concrete data after I beat mine some
FWIW there's a 231/300 doubler expert right there in Granite Falls. 3DCRAWLER here on this board, he runs Minton's Automotive and he knows his stuff!