Totally agree about the sweet spot and I found that out towing last weekend for sure. Mine was very similar to what it sounds like yours are. Gotta be in 2nd for around 55 and under and I gotta get to 3rd for anything much over 55. I guess I just wasn't expecting to lose speed like I did pulling w/ a diesel with no more weight than I had behind me. Felt like even you gassers would be waving as you pass by my left side moving on up the mountain.
That's kinda where I'm at...I was pretty set on an 06-07 6.0 but didn't rule out the 7.3s. This one popped up and I jumped on it. At this point, I'm torn on whether or not to throw more coin at this or to step into something that's going to be ~7 years newer, ride a lot better and have the power, more or less in stock form, to boot. There's obviously a whole other can of worms when dealing w/ 6.0s but keep going back and forth. I'd love to pull Black Mountain w/ my setup to see how they compare.