Best after school kid groups?

hunterdan

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My kids are looking for some clubs where they could enjoy some after school activities. My daughter (13) is an animal lover and also enjoys art. My son (11) is more interested in building things and then destroying them. Really he is into bows, guns, camping and video games.

We are looking into 4H and Boy Scouts any other suggestions on groups or activities would be greatly appreciated.
 
Boy Scouts. Don't know if he's too old to make eagle or not. But if he can that'd be a feather in his cap. Most of those programs give back only as much as you put in.
 
Boy Scouts. Don't know if he's too old to make eagle or not. But if he can that'd be a feather in his cap. Most of those programs give back only as much as you put in.
You have til you're 18 to make eagle. You can't join Boy Scouts til you're 11, so he's the perfect age. If you go that route, push him to get his eagle before he gets his license. By 15, I had achieved Tenderfoot, 2nd Class, 1st Class, Star, and Life ranks, and only needed to my project to achieve Eagle, but I got a license and a jeep and started chasing women. Waited til the last minute and barely finished my project and got Eagle by my 18th birthday. I think I had less than a month to spare, haha.
 
Boy Scouts, if your able do troop research.
If your blessed to have more than one in decent drive time really research what they do.
Had I done this my son would be one troop over. His troop is great and do very well but the next door group is a good bit more organized. They are also much more active in terms of true scouting events outdoors. This is the difference from short in and out hikes and such to true week enders and multiple day long trips at various locations.

Troop size matters to. Contrary to thinking smaller means more one on one, a larger troop equals: success as an average, more peer contact, better leadership social skill building.

For the little lady girl scouting for all of the same....

For both a really good 4H program. Usually very agricultural related.

All can be exceptional if they have good leadership dedicating the time to the program.
 
We took our girls out of Girl Scouts and started an American Heritage Girls troop several years ago. AHG bases their badges on the Boy Scout badges, and aren't all about making money (selling cookies).
 
You have til you're 18 to make eagle. You can't join Boy Scouts til you're 11, so he's the perfect age. If you go that route, push him to get his eagle before he gets his license. By 15, I had achieved Tenderfoot, 2nd Class, 1st Class, Star, and Life ranks, and only needed to my project to achieve Eagle, but I got a license and a jeep and started chasing women. Waited til the last minute and barely finished my project and got Eagle by my 18th birthday. I think I had less than a month to spare, haha.

I'll second the push him to finish before he gets a license. Seems like a lot to do but if he likes being outdoors it won't take him anytime. My Eagle Scout paper work was turned in on my18th birthday at 4:50. I may have thought other things were more important. But employers like seeing it as they are coming fewer and fewer to complete it.


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If you do boy scouts make sure it is a good troop. I stayed in for 2 years and quit because my troop sucked. The most camping we did was in someone's back yard.

Really wish my parents had found a better troop. I feel like scouts is a good way for a young kid to learn what it is to work towards a goal as a group and as an individual.
 
As an Eagle Scout myself, definitely a good way to learn life long skills. If he chooses to take it in and retain it rather than use it to get through just for the career benefits, he will be ahead of gas peers in the long run.

Look into Venture Scouting and The Explorer program as well. They are both much less known, and have some advantages over regular Boy Scouts, one of which is co-ed. I was a Venture Scout myself, achieved the Bronze Award, but the interest from the rest of the group wasn't there. It will open up opportunities for summer camps, regional, and national events that will be experiences they will never forget.

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As an Eagle Scout myself, definitely a good way to learn life long skills. If he chooses to take it in and retain it rather than use it to get through just for the career benefits, he will be ahead of gas peers in the long run.

Look into Venture Scouting and The Explorer program as well. They are both much less known, and have some advantages over regular Boy Scouts, one of which is co-ed. I was a Venture Scout myself, achieved the Bronze Award, but the interest from the rest of the group wasn't there. It will open up opportunities for summer camps, regional, and national events that will be experiences they will never forget.

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^^ all of this!
When I saw the thread title, Scouts was my first thought.
He's 11 now - going into the 5th grade, or 6th? If 6th, this is just when most boys cross over from Webelos.
Also an Eagle, and now an assistant scoutmaster (after being a leader in almost every position in Cub Scouts too).
I can tell you for sure... Eagle Scout or not... the life skills learned in Scouting are invaluable. Mostly regarding how to learn to do stuff, and perhaps more importantly how to be a leader - and be led when appropriate - among your colleagues.
When we interview students for internships here, having experience in Scouts is a major bonus for me.

Also, definitely research Troops in the area. There are not all created equal by any means.
I will disagree slightly with the comment above re: size - small is not necessarily bad, and really big isn't necessarily good. Tiny (like < 10 boys) can be awkward, and there is definitely an economy of scale regarding access to equipment, funding, - this is where giant troops are really good at self perpetuation - but it's also easy for boys to get lost in the crowd. And in my experience, giant troop tend to really be run by adults, not boys (see below). IMO ideal size is between 25 and ~40 active boys.

But what REALLY MATTERS - ask to what degree it is a "boy run" troop. This is where the differences come in, and it depends on what kind of experience you want your son to have.
Boy Scouts is ideally totally run by the boys. They make their plans for outings, they choose the outings, they do the organizing, they do the packing, they have their own set of leaders... and they also often fail and/or flounder is at least one of these aspects... because they are just boys! IMO In a good troop, the leaders let the boys fail at things and not be good all the time. They let them occasionally show up to a campout w/o all their gear, or missing tent parts b/c they (the boys) didn't properly check it over before leaving. They let them eat horribly overcooked food b/c the new kid is just learning how to use a skillet. They let them experience blisters from poor footwear... etc etc. They learn more from the adversity of failure - and being creative to deal with the consequences - than always having an adult make sure things are going well.

All that aside, I'd also like to throw in a vote for FIRST Lego League, or FIRST Tech Challenge once a little older. These are great programs to learn robotics, programming, and teamwork.
 
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