I'm one of the few men in my circle of buddys that does not own a gun, mainly because I have three kids ages 3-6 and one hot tempered teenager in the house. I've been contemplating a conceiled carry for a while, but putting it off until at least the youngest can differentiate between a toy gun and a real gun. I've heard all the arguments about "just lock it up and put it where he can't reach it", and while that's all fine and good - if the idea of owning a gun is for protection from criminals, I think I'd want to be able to access it QUICKLY.
I was raised in the suburbs of Detroit and had to work in a VERY rough part of Detroit at one point. One Saturday, I went in alone to do some work and had to park my car in a fenced in side lot of our building because the front garage door wasn't working. As I was locking the inner office door, I heard glass breaking outside. Much to my dismay, I looked out the window of the building to see 5 rather large guys breaking in to my car. Being that it was dusk, I couldn't see well enough to tell if they were armed or not, but since I was not armed, I called the police only to be informed that I should come to the station to file a report (even though the guys breaking in to my car were STILL THERE!). Had I been armed, I may have been able to fire a warning shot and scare them off - unless they themselves were armed.
Fortunatley, all that happened was a lot of damage to my car, a stolen gym bag and some missing CD's. That was a cold ride home in December with no windows on the driver's side. My boss (my ex father-in-law) covered all the damages that insurance didn't since he felt bad that I had to park outside because the overhead door guy didn't show up to fix it the day before. I remember thinking the whole way home about a concealed carry permit. I thought about it a lot over the next couple days, but haven't thought much about it until recently. This may change things for me a bit.