I was gonna just let this die, but I think I may have been misunderstood, then again severe sleep deprivation and alcohol combined can do that.
To clarify this:
1. I realize that haggling is part of the automotive world. I have had people haggle with me, I myself haggle from time to time. Haggling does NOT bother me. The thing that bothers me is the point at which some people want to haggle. AFTER I have been out in the sun with sweat running down my back so fast it runs down my crack and back up my sack, is an inopportune time to haggle.
2. Having to stand out in all sorts of weather and pull parts, does NOT bother me. This is the job I chose, if I didn't like the job, I would have quit a long time ago. I actually like my job most days, as I assume most other people have days where they don't like their jobs either. There have been times that I have actually felt good about myself because I was one of the few people still working in the severe weather, or one of the few not complaining about it. So again I say, the weather does not bother me, the combination of bad weather and waiting until AFTER the part is in the office to decide its too expensive, kinda sucks.
3. I get paid hourly. This means that I get paid whether or not a part is sold, up to a point. I do not like wasting time at work. I don't stand around, flapping my gums, avoiding work. People that do that bug me, because I work hard and try to be worth the pay that I am given. In my minds eye, there is no difference in taking 30 mins to pull a part that doesn't sell, and sitting around in a corner with my thumb up my poop shoot for 30 minutes. Neither one makes the company any money, and either way I'm getting paid. If this happens enough, I cost the company more than I am able to help generate, which is bad for business. Being the newest guy there, I feel like I have a target on my back as the first to go if difficult economic times hit. That thought fuels the aggravation I have when parts don't sell. That aggravation happens when someone else pulls a wrong part and it comes back, or when a counter guy has one of us pull the wrong part, or when someone just flat out drops the ball and a customer gets mad and walks out from not getting helped period, not just when a customer does it to me.
To sum it all up, if you want to say that I am simply a hippocrit, thats fine. If you think I am nothing more than a whinny b*tch that needs to pull his big girl panties up and get on with life, I'm fine with that to. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Haggling, doesn't bother me; working in the weather, doesn't bother me; waiting 30+ minutes to ask the price AFTER I have pulled the part in bad weather then walking out because an offer is rejected, THIS is what bothers me. Just ask upfront, thats all I'm saying, it could save everyone a lot of time and trouble. As I said in the beginning, not having had much sleep, and drinking a brew or few, got my head kinda mixed up. At 3am, I wasn't thinking clearly enough to really say what I needed to say to get this off my chest and outta my head, but having done so even in my stupified state let me relax and doze off. Am I asking for your pity, forgiveness, understanding, or responses; absolutely not. I got to reading this later and realized I may have caused more problems then I intended, and possible hurt the reputation of the good people I work for. I wasn't trying to cause ill feelings, just get some junk out, and clear my head. Next time I'll wait till I can do so in a more clear and concise manner though.