Extreme couponing

GotWood

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Maiden, NC
The wife and neighbor have gotten into this. They come home with some great deals but I'm starting to believe they spend as much in gas and printer ink as they save. Anyone else have this problem?
 
Maybe. Occasionally my wife will do this but rarely.
She has some friends that are really into it.
My take on it is... maybe only a little $$ is saved.
But - it keeps them busy, provides a nice hobby that at least dosn't net a big loss.

Soooo - whats the harm? Way more practical hobby from an expense standpoint than what we do!
 
I know i hate being in the checkout line behind one of those extreme couponers. You will seemingly spend hours of your life waiting for them to get finished at checkout. And it never fails that they also will try to pay with a check. WTF!!!!!
 
My wife does this and it does save you but you have to shop smart. Also, the web also makes it easier to prep and find the best deals. She only invests maybe an hour a week.
 
It's much better than some of the other hobbies she has had that's for sure. But do we really need 25 bottles of laundry detergent? It will be on sale again!
 
My old lady couponed, and falls in and out of it from time to time. She's not what I would call extreme, but she'll buy a few different newspapers on Sunday, and she'll ask people to give her their Sunday paper when they're done. At her peak, we could get out of the the store for 1/3 of sticker price. Where she falls victim, and I think most people do, is when they just start buying stuff BECAUSE it's on sale, stuff they'll never use or need. One time we needed some garlic powder, she came home with 3 og the big bottles and 10 other big bottles of various spices because it was buy 3, get 10 free. For the stuff we used, it was great...but I really don't need a 10 year supply of Depends...yet. I finally sat her down and told her it was great that she saved $400, but when we only needed $25 worth of stuff and she had to buy another $100 worth of stuff to save that $400, it wasn't doing us any good.
 
but when we only needed $25 worth of stuff and she had to buy another $100 worth of stuff to save that $400, it wasn't doing us any good.

This.

And FWIW, how many of the coupons are for actual FOOD, not prepared sugar laden junk in a box or wrapper ?

The shows I've seen have been mostly prepared packed crap, sugar laden drinks, and a shit ton of laundry stuff. At what point does it become hoarding ?

I will say some of the folks who do the extreme couponing do donate a lot of the goods, which isn't a bad thing.
 
My old lady couponed, and falls in and out of it from time to time. She's not what I would call extreme, but she'll buy a few different newspapers on Sunday, and she'll ask people to give her their Sunday paper when they're done. At her peak, we could get out of the the store for 1/3 of sticker price. Where she falls victim, and I think most people do, is when they just start buying stuff BECAUSE it's on sale, stuff they'll never use or need. One time we needed some garlic powder, she came home with 3 og the big bottles and 10 other big bottles of various spices because it was buy 3, get 10 free. For the stuff we used, it was great...but I really don't need a 10 year supply of Depends...yet. I finally sat her down and told her it was great that she saved $400, but when we only needed $25 worth of stuff and she had to buy another $100 worth of stuff to save that $400, it wasn't doing us any good.

yep. It seems to me those that come out on top - those that actually really save $$ and it is a worthwhile endeavor - are not folks that buy in bulk and stockpile "just for when its needed".
Its taking that second step and actually re-selling the stuff where it becomes valuable.
Or, donate it to a cause that can.
OK so you can't use a year's supply of Depends you got for $25? Then donate it to you local old folks home. Itemize the deduction on the market value and you'll get way more than your $25 back.
Or ebay/CL that pile at 1/2 price since you got it for 1/4.

I caught one of those extreme couponing shows once (just by luck/curiosity), a guy got like 200 boxes of cereal for $10.
His whole goal was to donate it to a local soup kitchen. That was the one guy I've seen on these shows I actually respected.
 
tell her to try http://www.thegrocerygame.com/ my wife and I do it and save a good bit each time. We don't run around to 50 different stores either. You tell it where you shop, and it tells you what coupons to use and where to find them. We even get a lot of stuff FREE when its on sale and theres a coupon for it.... For our bulk items we shop BJ's.
 
We have 3 kids so my wife coupons (not extreme to the level that the TV shows are, but I'd say extreme) She rarely saves less than 75% - most of the time it's in the 80-90%. Now, that said, we do have to drive to Salisbury or Winston Salem to get the best deals (Harris Teeter triple coupon or Super Double) most of the time, but we have been able to do some deals at Food Lion. Most of what she coupons for is at CVS. We have had entire transactions with 10 or so items where we have paid less than a dollar. We only get stuff we use or can find someone to donate them to. Even if we get them for free, we just aren't getting Depends. We just don't know anyone who needs them.

I don't remember the last time we paid for body wash, soap, toothpaste, floss, contact lens solution and a bunch of other items. We have a stockpile, but it's nowhere near what the TV shows have. We could, however, go 4-5 months if we had to without buying anything but milk, bread and eggs and perhaps some small staple items.

Just today, we went to CVS and she bought 2 2-liter bottles of Diet Coke (her only drink) and 2 tubes of toothpaste for 55 cents.

One thing is that it's hard to coupon if you are brand loyal. Some things we are brand loyal to are Diet Coke, Tide detergent, and Campbell's Tomato Soup. My wife has buy prices set for most items that we buy often. When she finds a deal on them that falls below the buy price (mostly around 50% of retail), we stock up. I've built racks for cans of soup and canned veggies, we have two freezers (one meat and one for vegetables and prepared meals) and two refrigerator/freezers.

She uses www.southernsavers.com for most of her info.

Our budget is $600 a month for groceries and paper goods (which include toilet paper, paper towels, laundry detergent and Pull-Ups - 4 year old still wears them at night). For a family of 5, that is an aggressive goal, but we've been able to stick to it well and even generate a stockpile. Since we've about run out of space for our stockpile to grow much more, we are trying to live off the stock pile for a couple months, reducing our budget to $300 a month for the next two to three months and hopefully banking the remainder into our emergency fund. Our emergency fund took a huge hit last year because my 4 year old needed surgery on his teeth (long boring story).

I just love trying to figure out in my head what percent we saved afterwards. It's one thing to hear the cashier say "You saved $80, that will be $20, please.", it's another thing altogether to know that you just saved 80%.
 
It's much better than some of the other hobbies she has had that's for sure. But do we really need 25 bottles of laundry detergent? It will be on sale again!

That's just exactly right. My wife thinks the next time detergent goes on sale will be the last.

She used to do the extreme coupon thing. Not that much now, just needed stuff. We had all sorts of just crap food here because she got a deal on it.

Trouble with the coupons is, for the most part the stuff that you get the best coupons for is crap food. Cereal. Chips. Hamburger Helper. Stuff like that. Plus cleaning supplies.
They never have coupons for steak, chicken, milk, veggies...things you actually ought to be eating regularly.

Now, all that said, I've seen her go to CVS and leave with them owing her money. Those 'ECB' coupons you get for buying certain things, she's bought over a hundred bucks' worth of stuff, paid just a few dollars after coupons, and then gotten 25 bucks in ECB's, which is basically free cash to spend next time.
 
But do we really need 25 bottles of laundry detergent? It will be on sale again!
And this is what annoys me when I go the store for milk after someone like that cleans the shelf out. Now I have to go to another damn store on my way home because someone felt the need to empty out all the fuckin milk.

I relate the people on the coupon tv show to have the same issues as the ones on the hoarders tv show. Why do you need 17 boxes of cereal, 52 bottles of ketchup 26 cases of ramen noodles...
 
^hey watch it. I love me some ramen and ketchup. I still haven't let go of some of my college habits
 
I have that problem with spaghettios!

I guess she wouldn't be considered extreme compared to the tv show. I agree with the fresh foods, no deals on that to be found. We live 4 blocks from Food Lion so a lot of times she will go there after work and get the meats that are marked down for quick sale and fix that for supper. Works nice because it's a surprise when I get home!
 
And this is what annoys me when I go the store for milk after someone like that cleans the shelf out. Now I have to go to another damn store on my way home because someone felt the need to empty out all the fuckin milk.

I relate the people on the coupon tv show to have the same issues as the ones on the hoarders tv show. Why do you need 17 boxes of cereal, 52 bottles of ketchup 26 cases of ramen noodles...


It's not that you NEED 17 boxes of cereal, 52 bottles of ketchup and 26 cases of ramen noodles.... but when you can get cereal for less than 50 cents a box (brand name cereal - not Bran-E-O's or Granola Twigs, Bark, Branches and Things, etc.), if you have space for it, I say go for it. As long as you keep the kids from opening more than one box at a time, the stuff stays fresh for a LONG time. The last time we bought cereal, we got three boxes of cinnamon toast crunch, 4 boxes of Honey Nut Cheerios and 2 boxes of Lucky Charms for less than a dollar. I'm not a big fan of Honey Nut Cheerios, but we make something called Reindeer Crack at Christmas time, which uses Chex Mix, Cheerios, pretzels and M&Ms drizzled in white chocolate and it's AWESOME. If you are hungry, even Honey Nut Cheerios sound good, even if you aren't a big fan. My wife has a saying, "If you don't coupon, you probably aren't poor enough."

Now, are there people that are rude about couponing? YES!!!!! We've been behind some rude couponers before. We typically will let the checkout gal know up front that we have coupons and will let people cut in front of us if we have multiple transactions. But sometimes, it's just inevitable that we are a little slower because we check each thing as the checkout gal rings them through to make sure the prices are what they should be. Typically, my wife goes shopping by herself so she can focus on the register transaction to make sure everything goes as planned. If we go together, I work with the kids to keep her focused on it. We have had a couple of times that we've heard some people behind us complaining about us couponing as we were unloading our stuff - "Let's just go to another lane - this couponer is going to be a WHILE". Because my wife is type A personality and is very organized with it, most of the time we are done with our transaction before people with less items and no coupons. A lot of times, it boils down to knowing your stores coupon policy and abiding by it to the letter. Don't try to "sneak by" with expired coupons, coupons that don't qualify, or a coupon for something that you didn't buy. The computer is good about catching most stuff - it only slows the process down. But if you know you are in the right and you know the policy better than the clerk, it goes a long way, even with a store manager.

What's really funny is some of the clerks/cashiers have issue with us "getting all that stuff for free". It's as though they think we are stealing from them. Thing is, if you look at it from a business stand-point, good store managers LOVE US (those that play by the rules and are polite about it). They get inventory turns which is how their stores are ranked. The store gets full credit for the coupon when they turn them in to the manufacturer, so except the double/triple coupon stuff, they are paid for it. Smart store managers will seek out couponers and find out what the couponers will be seeking out in their next circular. It's about combining the coupon with a store offer or promotion to get the stuff for free/cheap. If a store manager knows what the couponers will be seeking out, they can order more of that item and get a bunch of inventory turns on that item, making them look good. We've had it happen with a couple of CVS managers.

Oh, and if someone felt the need to empty out all the milk, I can just about guarantee you it was NOT a couponer... they rarely run good coupons on milk. Odds are good that if they are out of milk, the weather man said it's going to snow, so you are screwed if you need bread and eggs to make your French Toast. We buy our milk at Costco for a couple reasons - it seems to last a couple days past the expiration date unlike most of the milk that we've bought at Food Lion and it's consistently cheaper than anywhere else. We drink a LOT of milk in our house. Most times, we buy three gallons at a time and freeze at least one. By freezing it, you pretty much suspend the due date for the freeze period. The Costco jugs are square so they fit in the freezer well, too. Just make sure you pour out at least two cups before freezing it because it expands.
 
Well said.

I coupon as well, but not what I would consider extreme. When I first started I was hardcore about getting all the best deals and going to the grocery store as early as I could on the days the weekly specials started (Tues at midnight). I fell into the trap about buying things just because it was a super deal and not because I needed it. Finally I wised up and now I spend about an hour a week doing it, only cutting the coupons for products that I actually use. I buy enough of whatever when its on sale to hold us over until it goes on sale again. The time between sales varies for each product, but typically its every 4-8 weeks. On average, I save about 50% on groceries and feed a family of 4 for $600/month easily.

Meats go on BOGO or B2G3 roughly every 2 months so I try to stock up then. I only shop at two grocery stores: Compare Foods for produce and Harris Teeter for everything else. Compare Foods produce is about half the cost of HT and just as good. You just have to look past their store image/motif. In the summer months, I buy all my veggies and fruits at the farmers market. I try to go to the same vendors and develop a relationship with them, which usually nets me some good discounts later in the season. I've thought about adding CVS to my shopping trip, but haven't convince myself that its worth the time to make 3 stops for groceries.

I agree with Mangler about the store managers and have nothing but pleasant experiences in dealing with them. I do make sure I know and play by the rules though. All the managers at the HT in my area know me because I'm the only dude couponing and I have a bright green coupon book...lol. I did get some funny looks and questions at first, but people are polite and understanding for the most part.
 
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