Dude...
In 5 years my houses value has increased about 25k. And I hav esomewhere around 125k in equity right now. I can fix a lot o damn heat pumps with that coin.
Ron, the reason thsi worked for you is the following 3 crticial factors...
1 - you're a reasonably smart and responsible guy
2 - you can do things yourself and have/find the time to learn the business necessary to get house-related projects done cheaper
3 - IIRC, you've have pretty good financial fortune (even w/ some ups and downs)
What you have to keep in mind is by definition,
49% of people are below average intelligence. By that same token, 50% of people are higher than average "lazy".
Likewise, many,many,many Americans are just making ends meet, month-to-month.
"Success" in buyin ga home (vs renting) requires all three of the above, or particular strength in one to ocmpensate for others.
A very lareg portion of the housing and market crash right now is b/c literally millions of people owned homes who simply should not have. It was not the better ifnancial decision for them - as proven by the loss. Guess what, all those folks will be renting now.
What it comes down to is simple - renting vs buying depends on who you are and what your circumstances are. In the example above, you are doing very well on your home b/c
you could afford a 15 yr mortgage. When we bought our home 6.5 yrs ago, we were scraping just to get the 30 yr deal. I woud have LOCVED to do a 15 year plan... but we just didn't have the money. Simple fact. So, I got around the problem by boosting up on Factors 1 and 2 above, did alot of upgrades myself at the sacrifice of sleep, time, and career. But not everybody has that luxury.
We jsut sold our home here, and when we move to MD, will be renting. It kilsl me - but financially it's the best deal right now. The 20% equity $$$ we will walk away with here would barely be enough for 5% up there....