Guess what - when I lived in NC I got called 3 times. Twice I cancelled the plans I had at my "work", which was a project I was running in grad school which my degree depended on, only to find out the night before that I wasn't needed. Yeah I was pissed, but hey that's how it works. Third time, went in, spent the day waiting, but never selected for jury. Day wasted. Guess what, I was supposed to give a presentation to my thesis committee that day, I had to reschedule it. Inconvenient? Yes.
Yes, big pain in the ass. I have a wife and kids too. And if I were to get called in today, do the math today for the "loss of work" cost to the US Government (my employer) it'd be quite a bill. But you know what, it's my civil duty, I'll do it every time.
The way I see it, there are people making waaay bigger sacrifices to keep our society civil - police, firefighters, soldiers. Giving up a day or two every couple of years is really pretty fucking trivial in the grand scheme of things.
I just think about the guy on the stand. For all you know, he could be completely innocent. You think this is inconvenient for you? What about him? Or, what about the people he allegedly victimized? They sure as hell have been inconvenienced. And you can bet that on either side, it's been waaaay more than a day off of work. They don't use juries for trivial shit (in theory, anyway).
I'm sorry it's inconvenient. It sucks all around. But you're not getting any sympathy from me just b/c yout don't want to go. Kudos on getting it delayed.