I am going thru the same thing too. I have always had pitbulls and love them. we put ours down last November and the kids have been wanting another dog. I have been looking at labs the last few months. believe we are going to get a chocolate lab and surprise the kids. have been looking at tons of websites from va and nc. I was at my land the other day and remembered the guy 2 farms down raised labs. I took a ride over there and checked them out.
I love hunting but do not plan on hunting the dog. not a duck hunter. will use him though to help retrieve deer and just be a companion in the woods when I just ramble around. I just need to decide between a male or female. I want a male, because of the looks. blocky head and size. kind of thinking of female though, as I hear the listen better. we will see. hope you have luck finding 1. jesse
Couple things here.
Block versus round head is a genetic/lineage deal not a male vs female.
It is the English vs American standard debate. Its pretty controversial in the Lab and field trial/show world. Breed standard says a male shouldnt weigh more than 75 lbs. "American" Labs frequently get over 100lbs.
Listen better male vs female is rubbish. With the lone exception of partially trained male dogs and local bitches in heat. He will get distracted like a teenage boy at the swimming pool.
I will never have a "properly" trained dog again. Too much work. Breaks too much spirit. Too sad. Im an old softy.
Now a properly mannered dog, absolutely. Thats a must. And a different story.
Regardless of size, sex or color. Check out the tail of the PARENTS of any pup you are considering. The tail needs to flare significantly in the last 3-4" at the hip bone. A "whip" tail is a sign of a number of deficiencies and is best to avoid.
Coat is another tell tale. If the adult's coat is ragged or wiry, the dog's nutrition is poor. (If its a full blooded lab other breeds and mutts/mixes with other breeds will vary greatly) Malnourished dogs have unhealthy pups.
Every time.
Last thing here about personality. Just like we all have different personalities, so too do dogs. There isnt a good or bad, per se, but there is a good and bad "fit"
Do you want a chill companion who will lay at your feet while you rock on the porch? Do you want a rambunctious lovable nuisance who never says enough?
Spend some time with a litter of pups. They will grow up but their personalities wont change. A breeder who wont let you "pick a pup" I personally wouldnt do business with.