Loss of mother

damnskippy

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First of all, I guess I've always been kind of a mamas boy. Lived across the road, saw her or at least talked to her everyday.
8/21/16 my daughter and I were going out of town. Circumstances prevented us going so we just happened to be home. My mother called that evening crying in pain. We ran up there called 911 and had her taken to the hospital where we found out she had an aneurysm in her stomach and a bleeding aorta.
We're told in the ER that with her other ailments (dialysis for eight years) that she would not live through the surgery. she was moved to the palliative care floor.
On Monday a buddy I got a call from a friend who said he missed my call earlier. I had not tried to call anybody. He swore he had a missed call from me and would show me. I explained what was going on and hadn't called. He said he would save it and show me. My phone showed no outgoing calls.
Later that week another good friend came by and gave me an envelope with a check. Said a group had gotten together and wanted me to have it because they knew how it was staying at a hospital and just felt I needed it.
Mom passed away on 8/31/16. I'm sure non-believers will argue, but I know God kept me from going out of town that Sunday. Mom would have died alone in her home had we been gone.
I know God sent that call to my friend as I hadn't tried to call him in weeks. Nobody knew at the time and he was the first outside support I had.
The money that was given to me ended up being enough to finish paying the funeral home to start the funeral and burial.
I'll never believe all of this was a coincidence. It was gods hand all the way. It's like the old poem everyone has seen. During the hard times, he will carry you.
I hope this makes at least one person think and turn their life around.
If you mother is still alive go see her and cherish every minute.
I love you mom. I hope you know how much you are missed. See you again one day.
 
Sorry for your loss! My Dad passed almost 20 years ago and I think of him every day. I try to think of all the good times we had and when I get in a tough spot of what he would do. You will miss her terribly but you will see each other again.
 
sorry about your Ma sending up prayers!
 
I just went through something similar with the passing of a close friend. I look back at all of the little things that add up to amazing.

I'm sorry for your loss.

God is real, believe it or not. Prayers for you and your family.
 
Thanks a lot fellows. It feels good to know that their are brothers out there that don't even know you, but willing to send prayers and put the family in their thoughts. Nice to know that we do still have good people in this world that actually care about others. Again thanks guys.
 
Sorry for your Loss, Marty. Many times it just seems God sends us or messages us. Twice, I found my Mother laying in the floor, with a broken hip. The first time, she was still in her house, & a fall had put her into semi-consciousness, so she was to lay there until found. The second time, she was in a nursing home, but in an apartment. She Was conscious, but unable to move to get help. Could have been hours before anyone checked on her! Both times, I just felt like Something was wrong, & check on her!
 
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