Relationship Advice.

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I know this is probably the wrong forum but I'm in dire need of someone to talk to. A lot of things have been happening with me and my girlfriend lately and I just don't understand half of it and I'm thinking that maybe, well probably a lot of you have been through the same experience and can shed some light on this because I'm just not understanding it. I'd much rather talk about this through a PM so pm me if you'd like to talk. Please.....mature people only. I've already been played with enough. Thank you very much I appreciate it!
 
Stick it in her butt and stab her in the neck with a fork.

Just move on.. there's lots more fish in the sea. You will learn something from every relationship.. Figure out what you've learned from this one and move on.
 
KEYWORD......."Girlfriend"! Unless you have a child or children get another one. Thats jus my $.02 Goodluck with it either way
 
After having been through many, many relationships and now a failing marriage, my best advice is to move on. The situation doesn't matter. If you are unhappy and are stressed out enough to ask for advice on here then the relationship is bad off enough that it's time to move on. Let her go and spend time apart. Enjoy your life and find someone else or revisit the relationship a couple months down the road. You'll thank yourself in the end. Most of all, don't worry about things man. Everything has a way of working itself out. Seems like a trivial statement, but it holds a lot of truth.

I've been with the same woman for 7 years now. We've been married since 2005 and things have been going down hill for about 2-3 years now. We are separating to try and find ourselves and understand what it is that we've lost. We both intend to move on with our lives and enjoy ourselves and if things work out between us then that's great, if not then we'll both live. No need in stressing over it. It is what it is and I/we will get through it. I'm concentrating on my friends and hobbies to help keep my mind busy and off of the failed marriage. Staying busy really seems to help tremendously. Don't let yourself be idle for too long.
 
:stupid: There is a ton of truth in this mans words. I've come to realize after busting my ass to make a few one sided relationships work, that letting the cards fall as they may and knowing when to part ways is the best advice I've ever taken.


But, if you have the chance before you part, stick it in her butt and stab her in the neck with a fork....It'll make you feel better...
 
If you're asking for advice from strangers on the internet, that shit is over.
 
It was not wasted, you have no idea how many things you have learned from that relationship, take those with you and learn from the good and the bad
 
Wasted 2.5 years?? Were you happy once? So the whole time wasnt wasted, just learned a couple of lessons. If you are under age (below 21) then 2.5 years is just a drop in the bucket. I was single for about 4 years, and loved every woman of it!! I'm now married to a great woman, and love every minute of that too.
 
I guess I worded that wrong. I didn't mean to say wasted. I was actually very happy with the relationship it just came out that she was unhappy and didn't know what she wanted. The only reason I'm asking on here is because I don't have many people in my life that I can talk to about stuff like this.
 
I know it's hard to let go. Especially if you're the one in the relationship who is still in love and holding on. You have to remember you can't make her love you and you can't change her. If she isn't happy in the relationship then there is nothing that you can do to please her. Sounds like she needs time to sort out what it is that she wants out of a relationship. If you continue to push her in your direction it's only going to make her pull further away.

Feel free to PM me if you're more comfortable talking in there. I've given my best advice from my point of view, but sometimes it's very therapeutic to vent to someone. :)
 
"Underage User"...that says a lot.

You got a lot to learn, and a lot yet to experience. At this point in your life, you should be enjoying life...and girls. Not looking for "The One" that you'll be with for the next 70 years.

Move on. Ain't easy, but one day you'll look back and know for sure it was the right thing...
 
lots of good advice here bro...even Rich's.
 
GotWood said:
Wasted 2.5 years?? Were you happy once? So the whole time wasnt wasted, just learned a couple of lessons. If you are under age (below 21) then 2.5 years is just a drop in the bucket. I was single for about 4 years, and loved every woman of it!! I'm now married to a great woman, and love every minute of that too.
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What he said... Unless his wife posted it for him:lol:
 
the chick has head problems!! and sounds like it's not yours!
 
Grand dad told me at my wedding to make for sure before I did it, cause at this point it would be just as easy to kill her and spend 25-30 years in prison. Looking back I could have been half way through that sentence by now. And probably would have been just as much fun and less stressful.

Take it for what its worth, just my .02

My grand dad was the preacher doing the wedding BTW.
 
kaiser715 said:
"Underage User"...that says a lot.

You got a lot to learn, and a lot yet to experience. At this point in your life, you should be enjoying life...and girls. Not looking for "The One" that you'll be with for the next 70 years.

Move on. Ain't easy, but one day you'll look back and know for sure it was the right thing...
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X2!!!... from an old guy who's been with the same one for 37 years. I still remember those before her that I didn't think I could live without. Thank you God for unanswered prayers!

It will all work out! :)
 
Grand dad told me at my wedding to make for sure before I did it, cause at this point it would be just as easy to kill her and spend 25-30 years in prison. Looking back I could have been half way through that sentence by now. And probably would have been just as much fun and less stressful.

Take it for what its worth, just my .02

My grand dad was the preacher doing the wedding BTW.
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Greatest comment ever! But seriously ditch her if you have that many probs. If its bad now wait til she has your balls in a glass jar on the nightstand.
 
raleighjeepguy said:
If its bad now wait til she has your balls in a glass jar on the nightstand.
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If you end up back with her for whatever reason, that will be your undeniable future. Get out while you can Lol.

back to Rich's idea though, stick it in her butt and stab her in the neck with a fork first.
 
jackedHB said:
Grand dad told me at my wedding to make for sure before I did it, cause at this point it would be just as easy to kill her and spend 25-30 years in prison. Looking back I could have been half way through that sentence by now. And probably would have been just as much fun and less stressful.
Take it for what its worth, just my .02
My grand dad was the preacher doing the wedding BTW.
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Im sorry, but lmao.
dude get a grip. on to the next 1.
I'll give the words my old man gave me to live by.
" son, I dont see anything special about you. if she will do it with you. she will do it with anbody"
just remember that when your "falling in love" :beer:

and if that doesnt work. listen to Rich
 
I tell everyone getting married that same little piece of advice. I wouldn't take anything in the world for my wife, but it could have worked either way.

In all seriousness, if shes giving you that much stress now, ditch her and get another one.
 
cardudenc said:
"son, I dont see anything special about you. if she will do it with you. she will do it with anybody"
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One of the wisest things I have ever heard.
 
You're young. And no woman is worth getting torn up over. You get nothing from pining over her. Just remember, when you are in your next relationship, you'll be thinking to yourself "Why was I upset over her"?
 
Hey most women are all the same... Been through couple shitty ones myself and you can always find one better than the last! and if your doubting it at all then youve already made ya mind up its not worth "wasting more time" leave it alone go get ya a new women and take her wheeling!!!!!!!!!!! good luck
 
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