remote aim logging- IT guys inside- cheating gf

91yota

91yota

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ive got a pretty good reason to want to log my girlfriend's aim conversations... the problem is, we use a public computer (no internet in our apartment) and i cant download anything onto it... is there a way to remotely monitor a person's aim conversations (over aimexpress) so that it will email a transcript to me at the conclusion of the conversation? ive found programs that will monitor this but they have to be installed on the host machine where it saves the transcript to a file on the computer which can in turn be emailed, printed, etc.... any help or am i just going to have to rely on printed emails (which i already have) to catch the cheating slut? :mad: :kaioken: :shaking:
 
damn, tell me more. Maybe I can help? I don't think you can do this without first downloading the software. But I am not sure about that. Do you care to share a little more about that story. I understand it is personal but hey, you did post this......lol:popcorn:
 
basically i found emails where she specifically said she loved the guy... he has a 513 area code and wont return or answer my calls... i also found an email of a picture from her phone of a guy on what looks to be a bed with no shirt on.... i'd like to find some way to do it without downloading the software to the computer she is using since it is an apartment computer, but everything i have found has to be installed on the computer being used... i dont really care to capture everyone elses conversations and im positive the apt people wont let me do that.... so i need a way to monitor it from my work computer/email.... if anyone can help that would be great
 
Just show the cheating ho the door. What's the big deal? :rolleyes:
 
Dump her what good could come from this?
She will say ok you got me and then do it again.
Show her the door.........
 
If nothing else, just let me know the air date for your Maury Povich appearance.





I want to know who the baby's daddy is.
 
saf-t scissors said:
Just show the cheating ho the door. What's the big deal? :rolleyes:
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If you already know that she is a 'cheating slut' ;

1. Get any and all of your shared assets in order.

2. Confront her and show her to the door.

3. Move on. Life is to short to stress out over a chick like that.

<><Fish
 
FishHunt said:
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If you already know that she is a 'cheating slut' ;

1. Get any and all of your shared assets in order.

2. Confront her and show her to the door.

3. Move on. Life is to short to stress out over a chick like that.

<><Fish
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What more do you need to know? Sounds like you know enough already to make the right decision. Good luck!
 
I will say it is against the law to do what you are wanting to do. As everyone is saying. You don't need to do this. Don't play games unless you are still unsure about her. If you know for sure just say something to her. Make it look as if you dont care and just want to know the facts. Dont be the psycho boyfriend you are about to be know as. Just tell her what you know or think you know and get her reaction. If you have know her and lived with her for 8 months you will know if she is telling the truth. my 2 cents
 
Get me her contact info, and I will assure your suspicions...

As everyone said, don't deal with crap like that, especially if you aren't married to the girl.

Also
:nopics:
 
FishHunt said:
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If you already know that she is a 'cheating slut' ;
1. Get any and all of your shared assets in order.
2. Confront her and show her to the door.
3. Move on. Life is to short to stress out over a chick like that.
<><Fish
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IIRC, "Common Law Marriage" in NC is 6 months, so go ahead and divvy up 1/2 of everything you have for her to take! (makes no difference which half, or if she has something you want half of...)
 
No common law marriage in NC.

And, even in the handful of states where such things still exist, the threshold is a bit higher than having simply lived together.
 
Caver Dave said:
IIRC, "Common Law Marriage" in NC is 6 months, so go ahead and divvy up 1/2 of everything you have for her to take! (makes no difference which half, or if she has something you want half of...)
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Sorry, nope.
NC is not a "common law marraige" state.
Here's a list.

http://family.findlaw.com/marriage/living-together/common-law-states.html

And my two cents: Just flat out aske her about the pics etc. "Hey I came across this, I'm curious who thsi is etc". You don't have to be an asshole. But of course, be prepared to be one if need be AND keep you head enough not say/do something you'll regret later.

And and you migh twant to meander through the info here
http://family.findlaw.com/marriage/living-together/
 
Im with these guys Aaron. Talk to her, if you dont like what shes says show her the door.

Look at the bright side, this may give you a chance to finish this truck you have been talking about for what...2 years :flipoff2:
 
Stick her in the butt, grab a handful of hair, and then tell her you know about the guy she's been talking to.. Cowboy up... :huggy:
 
If you're that insecure that you don't trust her, that's it.
Grow up, move on, don't be stupid.
 
Yep, time to move on, sounds like you've got all you need for your "proof". Anything else that you do will only make you look like an idiot.
Be calm, cool, and collected and show her the door.
Life's too short to have to deal with that BS!
 
Rich said:
Stick her in the butt, grab a handful of hair, and then tell her you know about the guy she's been talking to.. Cowboy up... :huggy:
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^^^ gets my vote. Timing is everything!
 
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