Student suing parents to pay for her college

I like the story out of Florida where a man wins a discrimination lawsuit against a school district with a strict confidentiality clause in it. They tell their obviously spoiled rotten daughter about it (which was the point of the confidentiality clause) to which she blabs to her 1200 Facebook friends that the school district has just paid for her upcoming tour of Europe and to "suck it". She just blew an $80,000 settlement because she couldn't keep her entitlement mentality trap shut.

That's the problem I see with a great majority of the next generation. The sense of entitlement. Don't get me wrong, there are some that are very hard working and mature, but a great many just expect the world to be handed to them. I busted my a$$ working two jobs and starting my own small company in college to pay tuition at Michigan State. I graduated with no student loans, no Pell Grant, no scholarships, just good old fashioned hard work. And I had it a LOT easier than my father did when he went through college since he also had to support his mother when his father walked out on them.

The problem, though is systemic. It stems from the government cutting back on what is considered "Full Time" work to 30 hours a week. Now, all the sudden, people whine that they can't afford to live on their wages, because they are only working 30 hours a week at their job. Guess what..... get a second job - don't expect to magically be worth more an hour. Because, say they raise the minimum wage from 7.75 an hour to 10.00 an hour - then all the sudden those who were making $10 an hour are all the sudden screaming for a pay raise also - and on up the chain. Again, are people taken advantage of at lower pay ranges, yes - it happens. So get an education and keep off drugs and keep your nose clean and maybe someone will pay you what you think you are worth. Better yet, come up with the next big new idea, promote it and make your own way just like the way the American Dream was spelled out to the rest of us.

Man, am I jaded!
 

This makes me giggle. As I went through college, my father was closing the doors to his tool & die shop, so whatever little money I had/earned, usually went home to make sure the younger kids had food to eat and clothes to wear. Keep in mind, I made that money while playing football, and carrying two business majors. When I headed home, and in the last few months since I moved back home due to home buying issues, the rules have always been the same...be a productive member of the family, respect everyone in the house and be home at a reasonable hour due to smaller kids and people that have to be up for work. I really don't think that's too much to ask for a place to sleep and a free place to do your laundry and get cable.

I like the story out of Florida where a man wins a discrimination lawsuit against a school district with a strict confidentiality clause in it. They tell their obviously spoiled rotten daughter about it (which was the point of the confidentiality clause) to which she blabs to her 1200 Facebook friends that the school district has just paid for her upcoming tour of Europe and to "suck it". She just blew an $80,000 settlement because she couldn't keep her entitlement mentality trap shut.

That's the problem I see with a great majority of the next generation. The sense of entitlement. Don't get me wrong, there are some that are very hard working and mature, but a great many just expect the world to be handed to them. I busted my a$$ working two jobs and starting my own small company in college to pay tuition at Michigan State. I graduated with no student loans, no Pell Grant, no scholarships, just good old fashioned hard work. And I had it a LOT easier than my father did when he went through college since he also had to support his mother when his father walked out on them.

The problem, though is systemic. It stems from the government cutting back on what is considered "Full Time" work to 30 hours a week. Now, all the sudden, people whine that they can't afford to live on their wages, because they are only working 30 hours a week at their job. Guess what..... get a second job - don't expect to magically be worth more an hour. Because, say they raise the minimum wage from 7.75 an hour to 10.00 an hour - then all the sudden those who were making $10 an hour are all the sudden screaming for a pay raise also - and on up the chain. Again, are people taken advantage of at lower pay ranges, yes - it happens. So get an education and keep off drugs and keep your nose clean and maybe someone will pay you what you think you are worth. Better yet, come up with the next big new idea, promote it and make your own way just like the way the American Dream was spelled out to the rest of us.

Man, am I jaded!


I still blame the parents that raise these kids. Oh...you want to be friends with your kid, don't be surprised when they turn out for shit. I can appreciate wanting to give your kid a better life than you had, but that doesn't mean they still shouldn't understand the value of a dollar and how to get it. Blows me away driving by the local high school and seeing what kids are driving these days. Or hearing parents dropping $500-1000 per kid on Christmas and birthday gifts. Until I was in middle school it was $100 for a birthday, that included cake, food for everyone and the socks/underwear I needed. I just don't get where parents don't feel the need to make their kids work for what they have.
 
Totally agree with Mangler.

My parents did pay for my first four years of college, but after I screwed around and didn't graduate, they stopped paying. Of course, I didn't bitch and moan, I totally understood. I started doing odd jobs here and there to take a class at a time. Detailing cars, powdercoating, even raking leaves. Finally I went back full-time and started selling my cars to pay for my school. I started with a really nice paid off Sierra and by the time I graduated I was driving a 1995 Plymouth Voyager that my dad gave me and I had to stick a junkyard engine in. But I have no student loans, etc. I did it myself that last few years!

The funny thing about that story, is that the dad of the girl she is living with is the one helping her with the lawsuit! What that says to me.........is that bitch is so annoying that the other dad is willing to look like a douche to get her the fuck out of his life too! :lol:
 
That is ridiculous.
 
What's most disturbing is the fact a Judge may take the side of the child. What political/judicial doors will this open down the road?
 
I still blame the parents that raise these kids. Oh...you want to be friends with your kid, don't be surprised when they turn out for shit. I can appreciate wanting to give your kid a better life than you had, but that doesn't mean they still shouldn't understand the value of a dollar and how to get it. Blows me away driving by the local high school and seeing what kids are driving these days. Or hearing parents dropping $500-1000 per kid on Christmas and birthday gifts. Until I was in middle school it was $100 for a birthday, that included cake, food for everyone and the socks/underwear I needed. I just don't get where parents don't feel the need to make their kids work for what they have.

I agree with the first half so I cut it out...this second half though....as you have kids I suspect your view will change some. I say that because you sound just like me 10 years ago...now my two are 13 and 10. Regarding cars my 13 year old is coming up on the decision quickly. He has been saving for years. He wants a 4wd truck naturally. Part of the plan has been to buy him an older vehicle and he and I fix it up over a year or so to enable him to lern more and have a sense of ownership. He has turned wrenches with me literally since he could walk, he knows his way around a car better than most 13 years olds and thought this would be a good boost to that education. A couple weeks ago we heard of a family friend selling a 70s k10..went and looked at it to see if it might be his first truck... That night laying inbed I start thinking about all the crazy shit my 15 year old self did...then about how far technology as it relates to safety has came. So now Ive started planting the seeds of maybe an early Supr Duty...easy to lift. Sturdy. Disc brakes. Air Bags...safer. Who knows what we will end up buying but thats the thoughts today.

As far as birthdays and Christmas...well $100 just doesnt go as far as it use to sir. If you want to give them a birthday party at Chuck-E-Cheese for their friends...you will drop $300 minimum just on the party. Ok no we will do it at home, you say? Well by the time you prepare, decorate and CLEAN UP a kids birthday party...only mouse Chuckee sounds LIKE A DEAL...

From your other postings on here you are doing well young financially. Keep it up and I'll make a wager right now that by the time your first is 5 years old, Ole Santa costs closer $1,000 than to $100...
 
She just needs to use the money making machine God put between her legs.

Many a woman have survived selln that thing.
 
Looks like the judge sided with the parents at least for now. I'm sure this will be appealed to the Nth Degree or at least until the douchebag who's paying her legal bills runs out of money.
 
Unless she's paying him in P***y in which, it never runs out! But does get blan after awhile.

OK OI'll stop, don't know whats wrong with me today...
 
What's most disturbing is the fact a Judge may take the side of the child. What political/judicial doors will this open down the road?

What will happen next is that kid that barely graduated high school will sue his parents to put him thru Harvard or Duke.
 
I agree with the first half so I cut it out...this second half though....as you have kids I suspect your view will change some. I say that because you sound just like me 10 years ago...now my two are 13 and 10. Regarding cars my 13 year old is coming up on the decision quickly. He has been saving for years. He wants a 4wd truck naturally. Part of the plan has been to buy him an older vehicle and he and I fix it up over a year or so to enable him to lern more and have a sense of ownership. He has turned wrenches with me literally since he could walk, he knows his way around a car better than most 13 years olds and thought this would be a good boost to that education. A couple weeks ago we heard of a family friend selling a 70s k10..went and looked at it to see if it might be his first truck... That night laying inbed I start thinking about all the crazy shit my 15 year old self did...then about how far technology as it relates to safety has came. So now Ive started planting the seeds of maybe an early Supr Duty...easy to lift. Sturdy. Disc brakes. Air Bags...safer. Who knows what we will end up buying but thats the thoughts today.

As far as birthdays and Christmas...well $100 just doesnt go as far as it use to sir. If you want to give them a birthday party at Chuck-E-Cheese for their friends...you will drop $300 minimum just on the party. Ok no we will do it at home, you say? Well by the time you prepare, decorate and CLEAN UP a kids birthday party...only mouse Chuckee sounds LIKE A DEAL...

From your other postings on here you are doing well young financially. Keep it up and I'll make a wager right now that by the time your first is 5 years old, Ole Santa costs closer $1,000 than to $100...

I definitely understand the 'newer vehicles' are safer thing. I have no issues with kids having newer vehicles, hell my little brothers haven't driven anything older than a 2000...one in an exploder and the other an XJ (as first vehicles). The youngest brother is about to get an 04 6 banger Mustang, and the middle bro just bought himself an 08 F350 CC 4x4 lariat. I'm not saying they should all be driving 1980's civics, but good God, some of these mommy and daddy mobiles are downright ridiculous...the number of $30-40k vehicles I see around the local high schools seems to be a bit more excessive than just being safer.

Little sister...just turned 13...$100 budget. She had a sleep over with a half dozen of her girlfriends.They played outside until it was too dark to see, watched a couple red box movies and when they all woke up, they went outside again until their parents picked them up. My parent's gift to her were the snacks and cake and decorations, and a couple pieces of clothing...she actually thanked my parents for such a great milestone birthday.

As for Christmas for my kids...maybe. Again...not necessarily saying kids shouldn't get a grand worth of gifts or whatever. Just saying good god, let's drop the entitlement attitude kids are being raised with these days. That said, my outlook probably is skewed, I know what's it like to have to poach for food, I started working in machine shops and on farms at age 10, and I know what it's like to go without water and electricity for a few days at a time. Besides...I like being an e-hardass.
 
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My kids are 10 & 12 and I am already telling them to start looking for scholarship money and keep their grades up. I'm saving but there is absolutely no way that I can afford to pay for college for both of them, the thought of buying them a car when they are 16 is inconceivable to me. I hope and pray that I'm not raising my kids with the entitlement attitude that I know several of their friends have.
 
I definitely understand the 'newer vehicles' are safer thing. I have no issues with kids having newer vehicles, hell my little brothers haven't driven anything older than a 2000...one in an exploder and the other an XJ (as first vehicles). The youngest brother is about to get an 04 6 banger Mustang, and the middle bro just bought himself an 08 F350 CC 4x4 lariat. I'm not saying they should all be driving 1980's civics, but good God, some of these mommy and daddy mobiles are downright ridiculous...the number of $30-40k vehicles I see around the local high schools seems to be a bit more excessive than just being safer.

Little sister...just turned 13...$100 budget. She had a sleep over with a half dozen of her girlfriends.They played outside until it was too dark to see, watched a couple red box movies and when they all woke up, they went outside again until their parents picked them up. My parent's gift to her were the snacks and cake and decorations, and a couple pieces of clothing...she actually thanked my parents for such a great milestone birthday.

As for Christmas for my kids...maybe. Again...not necessarily saying kids shouldn't get a grand worth of gifts or whatever. Just saying good god, let's drop the entitlement attitude kids are being raised with these days. That said, my outlook probably is skewed, I know what's it like to have to poach for food, I started working in machine shops and on farms at age 10, and I know what it's like to go without water and electricity for a few days at a time. Besides...I like being an e-hardass.
Your views and attitude will change some when YOUR kids show up. Its easy to say what you will or wont do when you dont have your own but it changes when you do.I agree they dont need a lot of the things they have these days.My 14 yo son is not the worker his daddy was at that age BUT his daddy was not the student he is at that age.Him havin/doin school work and keepin his grades up gets him a pass w me on alot of things.

As far as vehicles go he dont want anything new,he cant decide between a IH scout or 68 C-10 as his first car.His momma is the one wantin him to have something newer and I have told him not too many girls are gonna be like his momma and not care to ride around in something w/o A/C.
 
Looks like the judge sided with the parents at least for now. I'm sure this will be appealed to the Nth Degree or at least until the douchebag who's paying her legal bills runs out of money.
Im willin to bet this will be about be the end of it.If she has any sense she'll see the writing on the wall,behave and go back home.
 
That is one stupid bitch


UTFootball, wait until you have kids. It changed me drastically. That is all I am going to say.
 
UTFootball, wait until you have kids. It changed me drastically. That is all I am going to say.

I'm not saying it won't...I know it will. But I'm also willing to bet, that I, along with alot of the guys on this forum, aren't/won't raise entitled little fawkheads either. That was the main point I was trying to make. Not that kids have to work 24/7, or that they don't deserve gifts they get (that's what expendable income is for), or that they have to go to school in rags...just that the entitled attitude goes further than the folks collecting their gubmint checks...and most parents can't/don't see that it's living under their own roof.
 
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I thought it was kinda shitty for the family that she was staying with to harbor her and pay for her stuff just because she couldn't follow the rules at her own house. Imagine how entitled her little friend is.
 
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