It has to do with wheelbase and type of trailer, not overall length of vehicle.
The wheelbase of the vehicle basically determines how much leverage the vehicle has against the forces the trailer puts on the hitch, both vertically and horizontally (side to side. The simplest way to explain this would be to imagine trying to grab a single axle trailer at the tongue, and spin it around, versus a double or triple axle trailer. Ignoring the amount of tongue weight, the single axle would be pretty easy to spin around. The double or triple axle would be almost impossible. The farther apart the wheels are, the more difficult it is to move side to side. The longer the wheelbase of the vehicle, the more difficult it is for a trailer to cause it to sway. On a crew cab long bed truck, if the backend slides out 2-3 feet in the mud, it still pretty much goes in a straight line. On a 4wheeler, if the backend slides out 2-3ft, you are getting pretty close to sideways. That is why a longer wheelbase is better.
A bumper pull trailer also puts much greater side to side forces, while not providing additional traction for the truck like a gooseneck does. The bumper pull creates a fulcrum and lever, whereas the gooseneck rest on the fulcrum, so there is no leverage. A bumper pull pushes on the hitch about 3-4ft back from the rear axle, so there is basically a lever arm and the rear axle/tires serve as the fulcrum. If a trailer starts swaying, you can have <rough estimate> over a thousand pounds of force pushing side to side. The added leverage makes it more likely to swing the rear tires out. Also, a bumper pull lightens the load on the front because of the same leverage principal, which further complicates things. A gooseneck rests over the axle, eliminates the leverage, and does not lighten the frontend. Also, because of where the gooseneck mounts, the tongue weight can be higher, which gives better braking and control. I explained this a little in cltdba's thread, so I'll just copy/paste:
Hope all this makes some sense. At the end of the day, it is a judgement call, and has a lot to do with your particular setup. There isn't a clear cut too short, but longer is better.