The hardest part will be getting the heavy trans/transfercase out for sure. One piece seals are easy. That one will be in an aluminum plate bolted to the back of the block. You can either pop it out with a screwdriver, then hammer the new seal in (make sure you see how deep it is first, some are flush and others may be pressed in a little further). If you do this method make sure you dont gouge the crankshaft or the aluminum plate or it will leak.
The seal kit should come with a gasket for the plate however so I would pull the plate off, knock the seal out on the bench, install the new seal, then reinstall the plate. If you go this route, put a dab of silicone on the corners where the plate meets the oil pan. Once again check the depth of the original seal first so you can put the new one in as deep.
I usually dont put anything on the outside of the seal, some like to put a thin layer of silicone on the outside surface but, I just hammer them in dry. You should put some clean oil on the seal surface where it rides on the crank though.