I get it. I do.
I am not saying you are wrong, in fact the l;awful good side of me agrees with you 100%.
I can also tell you telling a man who doesnt have shoes or clothes that ft properly because he cant afford them, that he needs to man up and pay the $10k and wait the 4-5 years it takes to become a citizen before he takes care of his family...thats not a reasonable position, either.
I cant really explain my feelings here because Im internally conflicted. I support a border a wall and think its a good idea. I can also tell you if the shoes were reversed Id try to climb, cut, bulldoze,trench under that MF'er every ay I could to find a better life for my family.