I need some female opinions.

but if she's ok kissing you while she has a bf, thats not the girl you want around you...
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X2, because what will stop her kissing someone else even if YOU become the new BF?

So my advise is, ignore her, keep it professional, and if she keeps on you tell her she needs to dump her current BF before you will even talk to her..
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And then be damn sure she really has dumped him, and maybe more important, be damn sure HE is okay with that, too. The last thing you need is a nutjob supposedly EX-boyfriend showing up and wanting to go at it.
 
Wow, she seems kinda...dark?

Looks like from the myspace she could be more attention starved then anything. I know people like her, with the dark myspace, the creepy drawings...

its mainly because they feel like they cant fit in when in reality they could, if they didnt try so hard to be they way they are.

Id say stay away, crushes are called crushes, because, well i assume they "crush" you?

You should go look up David DeAngelo on Google and check out some of his stuff if you feel the absolute need to get her though...
 
From jeepercreatures wife
She has just gotten out of this relationship with her bf and you are an easy target. She might have been trying to get over him and used you but she never got over him. So I suggest to not get involved just yet.



From jeepercreature: try posting this on www.drphil.com/forums.
Mods, please lock this thread now. lol:flipoff2: back to 4x4 stuff!
 
RatLabGuy said:
I have a simple question, just for clarity.
Thus far, from what you have told us, your assumption that she is still "with" this other fellow is based on what you overheard after her phone conversation?
I'm proposing an alterate explanation, before you go and get all riled up.
Could it be that, when asked if that was him on the phone, if she just didn't feel likely explaining that "yes it was the same guy but they were no longer together blah blah blah etc etc". Maybe she just fell like getting into it and so just said "yes".
I don't pretend to understand women, but one thing I HAVE learned is that soemtimes if something is kinda complicated they just don't wanna talk about it.
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You are correct I assume that she is still with the guy based on what I overheard. Again as you said it could be that she just didn't want to get into the whole story and just said yeah to shut the other girl up.:lol: Either way I do like her but we are friends first and foremost so until I know for a fact she is single I will not make any moves.

And as jeepcreature said back to the 4x4 stuff. Going to dig me out an access route to the trails behind the house tomorrow.:D thought I could make it over the "hump" but it is a bit too high for the stocker Rodeo. Got high centered the first time I tried so gotta dig it down a bit.
 
Either way I do like her but we are friends first and foremost so until I know for a fact she is single I will not make any moves.
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If she really is a friend then she'll stay a friend. Like I said, be sure about that other guy even more than about her.
 
Actually, it looks like two or three of them did. Hey, it ain't Omerta...
 
Do her in da butt then stab her in the neck with a fork...
and.. PICS man... :nopics:
 
jeep9mm said:
so whos gonna be the ass who sends her the link to this thread through myspace?
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And then let the hilarity ensue.
Ermm
Wait, myspace is blocked from work. Doh.:D

And I refuse to go there.
On general principle.
Not sure wtf that principle is. But I'm pretty sure it's a good one.

But as for advice, ask her wtf is up with said bf. Just as a "friend"
If they are over, she might get with you as a rebound, but odds are she is going to do the crap to get you and her bf to have issues. And THAT is just entirely to much drama to begin suggesting advice for on a random ass 4x4 site where most of us know each others trucks better than each other:D

Cheers, and either way, have fun, lots of girlies out there, (for the females, lots of guys too) If they are an ass, or requiring to much drama, walk away. It's just easier and less stressful.
 
Rich said:
Do her in da butt then stab her in the neck with a fork...
and.. PICS man...
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I think someone might have some pent up aggression?
Bad day at work? :flipoff2:

*wanders off to go attack a certain webserver and really make him curse at me*
(Before Mr Dept of Homeland Security comes by, that is a joke. I am MUCH MUCH to lazy to do anything even remotely like that. Please put away the cuffs and rubber gloves now)
 
She's enjoys what you do for her ego. It's clear that you dig her so ask for something exclusive or move on. That talk might be hard but it's the only way to go forward from here. This game of trying to figure out what's in her head is not a good idea.

If she won't be with and only you find another girl. If you're thinking, "I just need more time to win her over" you're the perfect sucker. Don't be that guy.
 
Checked out the myspace link.. hit that.. twice. Be the friend...with benefits. :huggy:
 
If you want an akward work enviroment... go for it.

if not... she is young... dumb... and indecisive. she will go to you.. then him... then you.. then him... then what ever guy she is interested in after that... then back to you. follow the guys advice... Tap it.. and stop talking.

Make her mind up for her. she is going to go back to the other guy... why esle are they talking? Downside. she tells all her friends what kind of jerk you are... up side, they dig bad boys..... and you can brag to your friends

I am in a sour mood over relationships.. so if you ever want something with a serious relainship.... don't ask me for advice unless I am head over hills with Joe smow
 
yager said:
hmmm like a female gonna break the chick code of silence and spill the beans... hmmm ya ok :)
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ehhh, opps.. she derserves it.


If we wern't all bitchs I might have gotten along with a few females and felt the need to keep the code.
 
Rich said:
Checked out the myspace link.. hit that.. twice. Be the friend...with benefits. :huggy:
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i second that, and can say that it does work!
 
Thanks once again. Tomorrow is both our days off so I may just go over there and have a chat with her. Who knows things may go my way or she will stay with the other guy. Either way works cause as it was said if she is a friend she will stay a friend. Just have to toss the emotions in the garbage and find me another. And belive me when I say I already know what drama can come from some other guy when his chick is leaving him for you. Been there done that and just got out of that about 3 months ago. Thanks once again all. Mods can close this anytime they feel like it.
 
Hell no don't close it! We want to hear what happened!
 
IF you treat her like you don't care, whether you hit it or not, she will have more respect for you.
Maybe that will give you time to realize that if she needs you to NOT respect her then maybe you will realize that you really don't need to.
Showering her with affection will only lower her thoughts for you.
It's not you (totally) it's her.
Move on.
 
purpleTJchick said:
ehhh, opps.. she derserves it.
If we wern't all bitchs I might have gotten along with a few females and felt the need to keep the code.
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I knew there was a reason I like you besides the Jeep... :D
 
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