Jesus would'nt approve

Someone saying "they're just being kids" is just being a slack ass parent. No respect for that. Grew up with 3 brothers and a sister and my parents almost never had to call us out in public. We knew what was expected of us and the punishment that followed if we failed. Simple! I never liked it and I don't think my parents did either but I'm thankful now for some of those ass whippings I got when I was a kid.
 
My 6 year old son will see a kid, sometimes older than him, lose their damn mind @ a store or restaurant....he will look @ me w/ a wth look.

I usually give him a pat on the back & we move on.....

It is up to the parent to control their own kid(s)....I am very vocal to the parents, I just give the stink-eye to the kids.
 
Jody Treadway said:
If our 100# malamute can sit at our table (appropriate outdoor bar/table) when we eat and not cause any disturbance, then I expect human youngins to do the same.
It's a respect thing and most adults don't get it.
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My Rotty is the same. Hes been well socialized and doesn't bark. I have put him in a chair on several occasions and hell just sit there. Hes too big now though and jus lays on the floor.
My grandmother regularly says if I raise my children as well as I raised my dog I'll do damn well. I'm simply not ready for midgets yet.
I accept the huge responsibility they are and the time they will require not to grow up to blend in with this generation of sissies.
 
the wife was just saying last night how great it is our Rottweiler doesn't bark. (neighbors dogs always going ape shit)

As far as the kids yes its because of slack ass parents. If you are firm with them when they are young then you dont have to be when they are older, all it takes is the stink eye or them reading your lips to get the point across :D
 
Gen0cide said:
My father in law is a preacher... *insert Dusty Springfield song here*

He would have had the same reaction you did.

I have 2 children, 7 years and 6 months. We take them out with us to eat and just about anywhere else. If you don't take them, they will never learn how to act in public. Sometimes there is a meltdown. It happens. Especially with the 6 month old. But, as soon as I see it coming, no matter which kid it may be, they are quickly removed either by myself or the hubs. They may act like jerks, but they will not disrupt everyone else. I had kids. I made that decision. I knew what I was getting into when I did so. No one else in the restaurant made that decision for me and they should not suffer because of it. If I have to stand outside or in the car with the kid until they calm down, then fine. If meltdown mode goes longer than planned, the hubs finished eating and we switch off until I'm done and we leave. Or we take our food home.

As for Jesus freak, he should have known the following -
Hebrews 12:9-11 - He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness. All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.
Proverbs 13:24 - He who withholds his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him diligently.
Proverbs 22:15 - Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of discipline will remove it far from him.
Proverbs 23:13-14 - Do not hold back discipline from the child, Although you strike him with the rod, he will not die. You shall strike him with the rod And rescue his soul from Sheol.

Among a million others...

Your simple retort could have been, "I was simply trying to show the parents how to lead the child onto a heavenly path, it was obvious that they were not bringing him up in the way of the Word. I am surprised at you brother, that you are not as concerned with the child's eternal soul as I am.. "

:D yeah.. I'm a sarcastic ass..
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Sounds like damn good parenting and a proper perspective on being a parent. This is exactly the way I feel. I have left many restaurants with my oldest son due to meltdowns, I simply refuse to ruin someone else's night out because my kid decides to show his ass.

I take my 3 yr old to the grocery store regularly. I give him some leeway because well he is a rather energetic 3 yr old, realizes he has a LOUD voice, and knows how to use it. But at the same time, once that line is crossed, it's total lock down from there on out. My son understands strict rules and discipline, can recognizes who won't do it, and exploits it like a black ops soldier.

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Sitting here this morning reading about these riots I am forced to relive this topic.

I posted this on Facebook to express my views and perhaps some of you will agree. I'm not saying there aren't intolerant right wing idiots out there too, because there definitely are... But most of them seem to have shut up and moved on now.
I'vee included a screenshot from the conversation mentioned within.


Protests. Riots. Hatred. Violence. Chaos. Threats.
This is how the left responds when they don't get their way. They are essentially children throwing a tantrum.
Eventually someone's gonna say something and tell the kid to act right and then that little brats idiot parents will probably get upset and start more shit.
It's the path to idiocracy. We are on the way.
We must come together as one but that will not, it can not happen until the left stops their tantrum, quits being so hypocritical, and quits putting derogatory labels on Trump supporters.
The girl yesterday who posted about how Trump supporters will be murdered because they voted for hate... In her mind she believed even though she claimed Hillary supporters would MURDER because of their hate, that the Trump supporters were the hateful ones in her eyes. That's the kind of people you need to prevent by educating them to be more tolerant. This is the problem with everyone getting a trophy just for showing up. The false sense of entitlement. She did not even vote! Now I could have left it alone, deleted her from my list, instead I engaged her because that type of psychopathic nonsense CAN NOT BE IGNORED. You have to explain to them that they are wrong. Ofcourse they won't want to hear it, they are the rotten kid who never got told no; They are the product of parents wanting to be friends instead of parents; and they will be the downfall of our fine country.
You don't have to agree, you don't have to like what I'm saying... But this is not the time to stand by and be "tolerant" of hateful, disgusting people making statements like "Trump supporters will be murdered for voting for hate"
We need to stand up to those people, we need to engage them in conversation or they will continue to live with that vile mindset.
I for one do not want to raise children that will go to school with the spawn of that kind of intolerance and hatred. This is the generation of "Let it go... Dont say anything" and this is where it's gotten us.
No fucking thank you.
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XJfreakHO said:
We must come together as one but that will not, it can not happen until the left stops their tantrum, quits being so hypocritical, and quits putting derogatory labels on Trump supporters.
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I understand your point, and agree, but how is this different than the 8-year-long Obama tantrum that the Right has thrown? I agree that everyone needs to come together and accept the new president, but let's not pretend that the Left has suddenly invented bad behavior in reaction to something they didn't like.

Both parties are guilty of that at different times, and it's not acceptable for either. I sit somewhere in the middle, and will gladly critique both ends because they both deserve it. To be honest, I don't understand being that passionate about politics to drive people to behave like that. It's done, get over it, make the best of it. It's not going to possibly change for another 4 years, so don't spend that 4 years being spiteful.
 
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Fabrik8 said:
I understand your point, and agree, but how is this different than the 8-year-long Obama tantrum that the Right has thrown? I agree that everyone needs to come together and accept the new president, but let's not pretend that the Left has suddenly invented bad behavior in reaction to something they didn't like.

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Sorry I missed the protests, fires, destruction of property and assaults that happened by conservatives when Obama was elected.

Would you please be so kind as to link news articles about those for me.
 
Ron said:
Sorry I missed the protests, fires, destruction of property and assaults that happened by conservatives when Obama was elected.
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I must not be watching enough news. Are those things actually happening right now? o_O

I'm not excusing anyone's behavior, don't get me wrong...




Wow, there actually is rioting. WTF is wrong with people?
 
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You can't fix stupid.
 
Fabrik8 said:
I must not be watching enough news. Are those things actually happening right now? o_O

I'm not excusing anyone's behavior, don't get me wrong...




Wow, there actually is rioting. WTF is wrong with people?
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I was surprised too. I usually rely on NC4x4 as a source of current events, but the chatter has been quiet until this thread. Looks like its mostly college kids with hurt feelings.
 
Sore losers. I blame their parents.
 
obullfish said:
The problem these days is parents are scared or to stupid to whip some ASS when a kid needs it!
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I got it and Jake has got it a time or two.A mean look and a stern talking to was usually all it took.

Ron said:
I don't do "say something politely " well. l can say nothing and I can be a grade a asshole...not much in between.
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drkelly said:
I think you did the right thing, but honestly it is more than I probably would have. I most likely would have taken my food and left. I tend to avoid confrontation with strangers in most situations for fear of some hot head carrying a gun and ending my life. It isn't worth it. I just go on with my day and forget about it. Idiots like that are not going to change.
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I usually don't say anything just bite my lip and go on cause I'm either nothing or wide damn open.Im not a confrontational person at all and will usually go out of my way to avoid drama because of all the crazies.
jeepinmatt said:
This stuff here ^. Just yesterday, we went to lunch after church. My kid is 19 months now, and apparently that means he can't sit in a high chair at a restaurant without trying to scream his head off. His dumbass daddy is in a cast, but I still choose to pick him up one handed and walk around outside with him in my good arm while momma eats, instead of just letting him ruin everyone elses lunch.
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Any good parent has missed or ate a cold meal due to havin to calm or discipline a child.
Jody Treadway said:
If our 100# malamute can sit at our table (appropriate outdoor bar/table) when we eat and not cause any disturbance, then I expect human youngins to do the same.
It's a respect thing and most adults don't get it.
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I prefer the company of a good dog over a lot of humans.
doc said:
My 6 year old son will see a kid, sometimes older than him, lose their damn mind @ a store or restaurant....he will look @ me w/ a wth look.

I usually give him a pat on the back & we move on.....

It is up to the parent to control their own kid(s)....I am very vocal to the parents, I just give the stink-eye to the kids.
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The guy that was behind me had two kids and the girl said "daddy would have whipped us if we did that".Thats pretty bad when a 7/8 yo recognizes it.

@drkelly
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I have used this meme more times in the past week than all other memes put together:

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I have 3 kids. they will be respectful. that means when we're in a restaurant they sit and eat. when were at a park they play. when we're at a store we shop. and none of those activities should impede on anyone else's ability to do and enjoy those same activities. and I'll not have someone else's kids impede my ability to do/enjoy those activities. the same kids who act like ass holes in restaurants are the same adult ass holes who think I owe them something. I'm wondering discipline someone else's kids but if someone else's kid is hanging off of my shopping cart screaming I'll take my belt to a parent.
 
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