Look at it this way...you're going to be moving the weak point around in the buggy. Bottom line, its Toyota running gear. There is going to be a weak link somewhere. You do have the advantage of being lighter weight which helps parts live longer when paired with sticky tires. Bigger axles and stronger diffs will make your tcase the weak link. That flat out blows to change on the trail or at camp and even the RCV outputs can be broken or it will just trash a set of gears or an input.
IMHO, make the weak point something easy to fix. (I am going through this same debate as to where to go with my 4Runner now that its getting stickies)
KISS Method:
(1)Get rid of that locker in the back and run a spooled V6 diff and have the gears set up by someone that knows what we do (
@Jody Treadway or ECGS which I know is just closer to you). You have full hydro, so run the same diff up front and carry a spare welded 4cyl 3rd back in the tow rig. Yeah it will affect the way it turns, but that's the tradeoff. I have seen fewer broken RCV/Dirty30/Longfield shafts with a welded or spooled diff which I attribute to the shaft not getting shockloaded the same way that it does when a locker does its thing.
(2)Throw an RCV output in your case if you don't have one yet.
(3)Buy a spare set of RCV's or Dirty30/Longs to keep in the truck. Black Friday is coming up and someone will have them on sale.
$ Method:
FJ80 Front with the full 30 Spline RCV's, drill the drive flanges and hubs out out for bigger hardware.
FJ80 Full Float Rear, drill the flanges out for bigger hardware
Spools front and rear or weld them
You'll either have to buy Hellfire Fab knuckles or deal with the tie rod being a little lower. You'll probably want a different ram than you have now as well. But you get to keep your wheel/tire combo, stay relatively lightweight and stronger. Not really sure the offset rear diff is an issue since you're not racing. A well built driveshaft will take it. RCV Shaft in the case and roll out. You'll probably be ok for 90% of the beatdowns that buggy will ever see and you can more than likely drive it like a full on ratard. The rest will kersplode a tcase gear or input shaft.
$$$$ Method:
Fabbed housings, 9" stuff blah blah blah. Cases will be the weak link for sure, shit tons of money and you'll end up not being much lighter than just throwing a set of tons under it for way cheaper. At this point just sell your shit and buy a buggy built with this stuff. You'll come out way ahead.