We ended up ordering a few Samsung pieces through Queen City Appliance in Charlotte. I'm not nearly as concerned with parts availability locally since #1 we have our other house 10ft away with a full kitchen if we need to switch for a few days, and #2 I'm too cheap to buy stuff locally anyway and I'm gonna fix it myself no matter what.
For the refrigerator, we wanted external ice and water, french doors, and an interior layout that would work well for us. We pretty quickly narrowed it down to Samsung and LG from a design standpoint, because they are pretty much the only ones where you can fully open the right hand drawer when only the right door is open (same with the left). Also, we really wanted the "flex zone" which is an adjustable temp refrigerated drawer between the fridge and freezer to keep quick access stuff and kid grabbable stuff. Also, the freezers were wider and deeper. The LG was about $2400, the Samsung was $1620, and I figured it's probably all the same Chinese crap inside of it anyway...
Samsung 28.15 cu. ft. 4-Door French Door Refrigerator in Stainless Steel-RF28HMEDBSR - The Home Depot
For the range, just wanted a 12" burner and ability to cook stuff. I wanted a double oven because I think we would primarily just use the small oven 95% of the time, but thats not what the wife wanted, so I'll let her keep cooking 95% of the time
Nothing too fancy, just a 12" burner and convection (which I've never used). $495
Samsung 30 in. 5.9 cu. ft. Single Oven Electric Range with Self-Cleaning and Convection Oven in Stainless Steel-NE59M4320SS - The Home Depot
We looked at Bosch dishwashers, but since we're coming from a friggin loud dishwasher, we figured anything would be better. There were quieter ones in the $800+ range, but the 44db option from Samsung was for sale for $520 and would match, so thats the way we went.
Samsung 24 in Top Control Tall Tub StormWash Dishwasher in Stainless Steel with AutoRelease Dry and 3rd Rack, 44 dBa-DW80K7050US - The Home Depot
We needed a countertop style microwave to put in the bar or pantry, and there were only 2 Samsung options, so $150 got us a 1.9ft^3 crowave:
Samsung 1.9 cu. ft. Countertop Microwave in Stainless Steel with Ceramic Enamel Interior-MS19M8000AS - The Home Depot
Those prices were all after the 10% rebate. It was ~$3050 before the rebate, and since it was over $3000 before rebate, there was another rebate for a free Samsung Powerbot R7070 vacuum cleaner. Still not sure how I feel about letting the NSA map out all the furniture in my house... Maybe I'll just sell it online and get another $300-400. If I do that, it would bring the total down to about $2400. FWIW, list price was about $4800 on the stuff.
Queen City Appliance was great to work with. We went to Hendricks appliance in Shelby also, but there selection was much more limited, and they seemed to balk at price matching Home Depot. Queen City was already within $1 of Home Depot's black Friday prices, plus they had the rebate for the free vacuum, and will hold everything until the end of January. I also like to imagine that their guys know how to move stuff without beating it up too much.