PK, I am glad you are on the mend. I too am a hard headed type. Several things have happened to me in my life that this thread brings to mind. I was once dehydrated and actually said to my ex, take me to the hospital. It wasn't because of heat though, I had been sick. Couldn't hold anything on my stomach, it all came right back up, even water. Cramping some, yes, but mainly it was my mind. I couldn't think straight. Things happened around me, and I wasn't aware. Went to the first hospital, and they wouldn't allow her to come back with me. They started with paper work, some of which I could not answer. Then he started telling me things, that I had no idea how he knew these things. When I asked, he said "your wife told us" I said but she isn't here! So he says yes, she answered these questions "out there" and the nurse just brought these papers in here. I said who brought them in? when? bottom line, I wasn't aware someone else came into the room. I told them I wanted her in there with me, I wanted someone who could speak for me. They declined my request, I got up and left. Still wearing the backless gown that at some point they had put me in(I didn't remember that! Went to hospital #2, same things happened, said she couldn't go back with me. She then spoke up and told them I had already walked out of one hospital and wouldn't go back unless she was there to answer for me. They allowed it. Several hours later, I left, after receiving 4 IV bags of fluid!
Then came the neck fusion.
Shortly there after, I had an infected Bursa in my left elbow. Surgery once again.
11 years ago at 45 I had a heart attack. But at the Murphy Hospital, they couldn't say for sure I had had one. Long story short, I ended up having 5 by passes.
Then came the knee injury. total of three surgeries, and the last being a replacement. To this day, it isn't right. The lower prosthetic, is loose. It causes a lot of pain.
Because of the constant limping because of my knee, it has my sciatic nerve screaming at me. Any time I am standing, walking, or even laying. I have to sleep curled up. Only time it isn't letting me know it's there, is when I sit. Hence, the reason I am on here or FB so often. Nothing hurts me while I am sitting.
Anything I do, I have to do in short periods of time on my feet. Which means I am sitting more than I am getting something done.
What I have had to do often is ask someone for help in getting things done. I hate to ask. In my mind I think I am perceived as lazy. But my body tells me, to ask, or it either shuts me down for a few days or, it doesn't get done.
Wheeling hurts me. Not the actual wheeling, out on the trails though! I am sitting for that. But the getting ready to go part. The cleaning, the packing, and so on. IT's freaking exhausting!
But I try to listen to my body and "try" not to do things that make it hurt worse.
Vicious cycle.
Listen to your body, don't be afraid to ask for help.