I will say that when I was looking for my first house I spent almost 12 months looking.. I was in no hurry but did not want to jump on the 1st house I saw.
the funny thing is I ended up buying a house I saw for sale 10 months early but at the time felt the price was to high.. I ended up saying 35,000 by waiting ( I got lucky )
but the things I did were:
- looked for no HOA.. yes they can be "good" but most are not and all you need is 1 person to get a higher then thou attitude and you will be screwed.
- watched traffic patterns
- learned the neighborhood
- check with city hall on permits and building stuff in the area to see what is coming or planned
- meet the neighbors before you buy, I knocked on the door and introduced myself and asked questions about area.
- check school, you may find you love the house and your 1st home comes your only home and if you start a family it is nice to know where your kids will end up and what schools
- park in neighborhood and watch traffic flow, the other neighbors down the street
- look at lawns, bushes, are they taken care of or not
- look at other house in area, is paint taken care of, are there blue tarps on roof, etc
- go to zillow.com find other house in neighborhood and see what they sold for, which ones are for sale, compare yourself DO NOT really on realtor
- Never use same realtor that is selling the house unless you personally know them..
- get all inspections done before buying house
- only finance what you can afford if you lost your job for at least 3 months on your savings. ( should really be 6 months but in today's economy 3 is better then none )
- NUMBER 1 RULE.. DO NOT BE AFRAID TO WALK AWAY.
these are all things you should do for your 1st home or any home.. the key is do your research, learn the area and do only what is best for you..
Remember a Realtor is a sales person and they are trying to make money so they WILL try to sell you on a home.. the faster you decide the quicker they get paid.
Same goes for mortgage lenders.. they only get paid when you sign the docs.. do your homework with them also.. look around at many lenders and find they best deal for you.
everything always comes back to WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU.
hope this helps..