paradisePWoffrd
Recovering Project Junkie
- Joined
- Nov 5, 2005
- Location
- Newton, NC
I hold police officers in the same regard and reverence as military troops. I don't condone the same course of action or tactics and in no way am I saying the police should be militarized, but they should be respected. I've had a bad experience or two with the police when you cross the path of an officer with a chip on his shoulder and I've had great experiences when I've been in the wrong and I've since bought burgers and doughnuts for the officers that didn't shoot me with my gun drawn as they were entering my home to inspect the same break in I was. Like in any profession, there are good candidates and there are bad ones and there are ones that turn bad over time, doesn't make it right, but I prefer to look at the bigger picture. Proof of that is, look at how many police interactions there are on a daily basis that go off without a hitch, compared to the tragedies. If you're looking for bad you can find it...but it's just as easy to look for the good.
What I find super sad, buddy of mine, played high school ball against, he was a linebacker at ECU a decade ago...came back home, has essentially been heralded a 'hero' in the lower income part of town, where he grew up. He's an officer with the local PD, was making huge strides improving that area with outreach as an officer, we've done free youth football camps together, he's set up 'gaming tournaments', etc etc...even went semi-viral a couple months back for patching a kids bike tire, went back a couple days later, kids bike was still falling apart, so he dug in to his own pocket and bought the kid a brand new bike. In turn he decided he wanted to head up a donation fund from the PD for the kids in that district for things like that. None of that did or is going to make the news. The second these riots and protests started and he had to do his job, the love and embrace for him was gone, just like that. He went from hero to traitor...it's been a long time since I've consoled a sobbing man, I'm not sure I've ever seen someone so broken. That's the sort of stuff I don't get in this world, bad things happen, bad people are out there, life isn't fair, but an entire community turning their back on someone like that...I just don't get it.
These same people will probly be asking him for more help, when all this crap settles out.