Well that just sucks. I've been through cancer with a loved one 5 times now.
Be strong my friend. Your wife needs you now more than ever.
From my heart,
Paul.
Thoughts are with you both, remember to reach out for help if/when you need it, being the care taker can be just as trying for your health.....keep yourself healthy and ask for help whenever you need it!
Already posted up on the book of faces, but same here - fuck cancer! Holly's got a great sense of humor, and she'll need that along with a lot of support, even if it's just a good joke here and there. Reach out for anything and know there are lots of resources and support groups. As you know, my favorite saying: I've looked the devil in the eye twice and spit in his face. He may get me yet some day, but not without a fight! Prayers and thoughts to Holly and your family as you go through this.