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XJfreakHO said:
If its that big of an issue, just have your brother go down there to the company office, and tell them whats up, and then wait for that guy to come in. Point him out.

If your brother gets him fired, chances are hes going to choke your brother out again.

Or the guy might bring to light another side of the story your unaware of.

Either way, thats the way I would do it. Phonecalls dont get anything done.
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This made me laugh.
 
XJfreakHO said:
If its that big of an issue, just have your brother go down there to the company office, and tell them whats up, and then wait for that guy to come in. Point him out.

If your brother gets him fired, chances are hes going to choke your brother out again.

Or the guy might bring to light another side of the story your unaware of.

Either way, thats the way I would do it. Phonecalls dont get anything done.
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At least this way the guy has a chance to defend himself agaisnt his accuser, and then the truth will come out. Your brother has already had a chance to have at it, and it didn't work out too well for him the first time.
 
Cherokeekid88 said:
Ok so, guy decides to be as ass by riding my brothers tail for like 2 miles, then my brother gives him a little brake check to get him to back off and then the guy speeds in the other lane and gets beside him long enough to see that my bro is flipping him the rod and then proceeds to get back behind him and follow him all the way to work and then chokes him.... Because HE was riding his tail and got brake checked and the bird flipped at him? I am not looking at things "eye for an eye" I am looking at things like this guy drives around and obviously has some sort of anger issue and he is representing his company when he is out and he should just get away with choking someone? I don't think so. Also, I am not teaching him that 2 wrongs make a right.....I however do teach him to take up for himself. My brother will call the company tomorrow because he did confirm that it was indeed that van was the one.He will tell them of the situation in hopes that they find out who did it and that something will be done about it. Lesson learned: My brother needs to know that if he plans on flipping someone the bird, he better be prepared, and if someone puts their hands on him first...all bets are off and he is free to have at it. Also, the guy better learn that you put your hands on someone, that you also better be prepared to face whats coming to you.
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fair enough....
 
just keep poking the bear,that always turns out well. your brother played his little game with the guy and you see where it got him.now get him fired over this stupid shit and see where that takes you. you are screwing with how the man takes care of his family.
 
witchdoctor said:
just keep poking the bear,that always turns out well. your brother played his little game with the guy and you see where it got him.now get him fired over this stupid shit and see where that takes you. you are screwing with how the man takes care of his family.
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Dude assaulted somebody. You're saying that shouldn't have repercussions?

That said - your borther might want to become familiar w/ the process for getting a restraining order placed....
 
witchdoctor said:
just keep poking the bear,that always turns out well. your brother played his little game with the guy and you see where it got him.now get him fired over this stupid shit and see where that takes you. you are screwing with how the man takes care of his family.
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Im not hoping the guy gets fired, but I do hope that something does happen to him to make him learn that you can't just go around choking people whenever your having a bad day and someone flips you the bird. If I did the same thing, you think someone would have mercy on me and my job? And if the guy loves his family, he shouldn't be doing anything that could possibly make him lose his job.
 
Cherokeekid88 said:
Im not hoping the guy gets fired, but I do hope that something does happen to him to make him learn that you can't just go around choking people whenever your having a bad day and someone flips you the bird. If I did the same thing, you think someone would have mercy on me and my job? And if the guy loves his family, he shouldn't be doing anything that could possibly make him lose his job.
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And your brother should not be risk the other guys life with a brake check. Its a 2 way street...
 
RatLabGuy said:
Dude assaulted somebody. You're saying that shouldn't have repercussions?

That said - your borther might want to become familiar w/ the process for getting a restraining order placed....
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what i am saying is the kid needs to learn when to lick his wounds and move on.i guess i am just the type that handles my own bssiness,and if i can't i don't go crying to some else to handle it for me.if it was something really important then yes get the law or who ever it takes to make it right but this is a just a case of a kid doing something he shoud not have done in the first place and learned a life lesson. it could have been a lot worse,their are a lot of crazy people out.
 
... and I want to see your brother's face when walks in there and discovers Mr road rage chokey chokey IS the company manager...
 
RatLabGuy said:
... and I want to see your brother's face when walks in there and discovers Mr road rage chokey chokey IS the company manager...
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I thought about that too!
But to set the record straight, I am not doing his dirty work for him. I am simply being a big brother and helping him out. He is young and inexperienced in situations like this. I have told him that he does need to watch what he does and who he pisses off, as goes for the other guy too.
 
Cherokeekid88 said:
I thought about that too!
But to set the record straight, I am not doing his dirty work for him. I am simply being a big brother and helping him out. He is young and inexperienced in situations like this. I have told him that he does need to watch what he does and who he pisses off, as goes for the other guy too.
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you not doing the dirty work, however you are encouraging him to continue this. This may be a can of worms you don't want to open. If this guy gets that angry over the sight of a finger, imagine what could happen if ya'll cause him to loose his livelihood... (I know, he caused it himself right? Wont happen if you stop now.)
 
Yeah, I can imagine all kinds of consequences to you guys getting this guy fired.

Heres a thought... Man gets fired, wife leaves him, takes kids, he decides he has nothing to live for and its your fault, laughs at the thought of a restraining order.
He waits outside your brothers work a few weeks from now and shoves him in the van...
 
When someone is riding my ass, I usually just slow down a good bit. It doesn't take them long to decide to go around.
 
All this elementary school crap will end up getting someone more hurt.
If this guy is willing to "choke out" your brother over a bird, I wonder what he's gonna do when you get him in trouble or cost him his job.

Right now, all yall have is wounded pride. drop it before you have a wounded brother.

Matt

btw- actions have consequences .... sometimes not nice. Your brother learned a valuable lesson.
 
XJfreakHO said:
Yeah, I can imagine all kinds of consequences to you guys getting this guy fired.

Heres a thought... Man gets fired, wife leaves him, takes kids, he decides he has nothing to live for and its your fault, laughs at the thought of a restraining order.
He waits outside your brothers work a few weeks from now and shoves him in the van...
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That is what I was telling him last night....of coarse, he is all pissed off.
 
OK here's what ya do. Get 6 guys of heavy build, find out who he is. Find him in a secluded spot(have brother with you. Have the 6 guys hold him, and choke him some to even the score, then take a belt to his ass for doing it in the first place. Turn him loose, and have the 6 guys hold your brother, and take the belt to his ass too. Both learn a lesson, neither loose a job, and let both know, there will be more, if it continues. Would be more intimidating if the six guys were Biker types like Hells Angels
 
Cherokeekid88 said:
That is what I was telling him last night....of coarse, he is all pissed off.
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Tell him to hit the gym, bulk up, maybe learn some martial arts or whatever so he can lay the next guy out who tries to choke him.

I'll reiterate what others have said. He needs to move on from this.
 
transman731 said:
i hate to say this, but your brother shouldn't have flipped him off if he wasn't prepared for the results of it, he should have just let him pass and let the other guy be pissed off.
let me clarify this by saying, I would have braked checked the bastard in a second,and when he passed i would have flipped him off also, but i would have been prepared for the results of my actions.
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Ummmmmmmmmmm really?!?!?! How far south has society gotten when "flipping someone the bird" is somehow justification for a beat down? I'm not saying that everyone should just go around willy-nilly flipping everyone off, but really.... its a GESTURE, people..... at this very moment, someone out there is probably reading what I have written and is currently flipping off their computer monitor in an effort to "flip me off" and honestly, it doesn't hurt. Even if the entire NC4x4 community is collectively flipping me off (and it may very well be!), I could really care less.

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So there. Infinity....
 
When I got my concealed permit and started carrying, I got very polite. I don't flip people off, honk the horn, etc and haven't in many years.

I don't want to explain to a judge that I flipped a guy off, then had to shoot him.
 
Little late to the party, but I'm in the 'lick your wounds and move on' camp. Fights start for the stupidest reasons, this one is no different. Folks can say 'assault is never ok, any violent act is one too many'...ok fine, they're either pusscakes or riding their high horse. Fights happen...right, wrong, indifferent...doesn't matter. I bet every single one of us on this board has been in at least 1 fight (God knows I have)...you win some, you lose some...don't dwell one way or the other and move on about life. Your brother lost...he should consider himself lucky that all that happened was he got choked out. As ironic as it sounds, there is chivalry in fighting...don't pull the bitch move and avenge your brother's honor or get revenge or some sort of retribution. The fact that the guy was 'on the clock' is a thinly veiled excuse and straw man rebuttal to pull the bitch move. Had this guy not been 'on the clock' this would be done and over with.
 
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