As I sit here this evening on the 1 year anniversary of losing my grandmother, in a deerstand I've sat in dozens of times behind her house I'm thinking back on what this farm once was not too long ago. On this 50 acres with nearly a mile of driveway there were 10 of us living here. Now only 2 live here, my mom and great aunt. At one time we had our 50 and leased another hundred acres and had over 50 head of cattle. Now, we have 9 on maybe 20 acres of pasture. At our peak we planted 10 acres of gardens so that we had enough for the whole family, and enough to share and some to sell. Now, there are no garden spots.
I know, time marches on and this is just the way it goes. But damn what I wouldn't give to go back and spend one more day picking beans or loading cows.
My grandpa owned peach orchards in Cana VA, a couple miles across the NC/VA line.
Starting around 8 yrs. old I stayed and worked my summers with him in the orchards, helped grandma in the garden and spend the evenings sitting on the front porch of their house snapping green beans.
Boring, hot, nasty work.
Little did the idiot in me for those 5-6 years realize the education those summers gave me.
WE get to point where we would have to wait 5-6 for anything to ready to pick ...... grandpa would come in at 4pm, "We're going to the beach tomorrow for 3 or 4 days."
I got that last minute beach trip gene also!
I learned how NOT to cook from him but grandma took care of it.
I learned I hate getting up chestnuts!!!!!
I learned Permethrin wasn't as bad as they said ...... still got 2 eyes , 2 legs, 2 arms ......... only mutant in the family is my sis, and she's, well my sis, so she's a mutant.
He was also the jailor for Carrol Co. VA ....... I learned the importance of hard work, and getting done what I was told too before he got home.
He didn't replace my Dad, but he was a good assistant at raising me.
First car I drove, his Corvair .... I was 11.
First truck? His '69 Chevy C-10 with a 3 on the tree.
Yep ... miss those old times too ...... stupid allergies acting up.