I got lazy. Finally moved my whole portfolio (outside of 401k) to be managed with Fidelity about 3 months ago. They gave me a really good fee for managing it all. Before that I basically just used the same 30 year old mutual funds were not very tax friendly. Right now they are doing about the same return that I would have done on my own, but hopefully they will structure will benefit me more come tax time.
We will see in the long term if its worth it, but at least its nice now not thinking about it as much and letting them run with it.