This for sure
SAME. I've owned nearly every brand. I keep coming back to Glock. That Gen 4 with finger grooves and multiple options for backstraps/beaver tails is just the tits (I've got large(ish) hands)
Recoil management (for me) is key. G19 gen4 with the largest backstrap is the closest thing to perfection in my hand. Well balanced, feels great, and best followup shot groupings. Second best is my G26 gen 4 with +2 grip extension mag, and largest backstrap. I USE to daily carry the G19 but once I felt comfortable enough at the range with the G26, that's all I ever carry (G17 stays in the briefcase though)
I've owned a PF-9, LC-9, P-11 & CM-9 in an attempt to carry something that printed less and allowed me to ankle or pocket carry, but I couldn't hit the broad side of a barn with a second shot with those. Just too damn small and violent. If I'm gong to carry, I can't willy nilly half-ass it. It has to be something I'm familiar with, that I can shoot WELL. If I can't punch holes in a quarter when I'm calm and taking my time...I sure can't hit center mass in a panic situation.