adman02
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- Joined
- May 15, 2009
- Location
- Durham, NC
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well I see you and others seem to think it's only and always me but I promise you despite what "seems" it's not what you think. There's is way too much to go into for some or most of those jobs you mentioned and honestly, you would believe and take sides with the other people anyways over me. It's cool though. I gave each one of them my very best for the time I was there and just didn't pan out. My problem, not yours.when you're the common denominator.
this is what I'm talking about here..you might know that I was a no show when I quit but if only you knew what really went on. You and others might know him on a personal level but when you work for someone for 6months you get to "really know them" and put up with things that just come out of nowhere. He's a great guy, truly is but on a business level not someone I wanna work with/for. I will tolerate a lot hanging out or wheeling/camping/fishing with someone etc etc but working with them is different story....get your act together or I won't be around much longer..that's just me and how I choose to operate! Yeah doesn't make me a lot of friends but don't care to at work.I believe it was welding for budbuilt that you no showed on
...get your act together or I won't be around much longer..that's just me and how I choose to operate! Yeah doesn't make me a lot of friends but don't care to at work.
It's hard to be sympathetic when you're the common denominator.
I agree but..but when it affects me then I have to say something or move on. I am a part of that business/job so when decisions made that affect the employees (as my current job was threatened due to his "decision") then I have to bring up concerns politely and see where it goes otherwise keeping my hood down I could be oblivious and out of a job in a instance. This way I keep my eyes and ears open so I don't/wouldn't get left hanging..my thoughts anywaysThat's the issue. He and others runs their business, now get this, their way.
As has been said, keep your hood down and your mouth shut. That's how you climb the ladder IMO
Uh nope only one and I did my very best for 9monthsPretty sure folks here on the board have vouched for him and gotten him jobs at a few different places, only to have him no-show, quit without notice, or hang around for 6mos before announcing that he's not being treated well and quitting.
I agree but..but when it affects me then I have to say something or move on.
I agree but..but when it affects me then I have to say something or move on. I am a part of that business/job so when decisions made that affect the employees (as my current job was threatened due to his "decision") then I have to bring up concerns politely and see where it goes otherwise keeping my hood down I could be oblivious and out of a job in a instance. This way I keep my eyes and ears open so I don't/wouldn't get left hanging..my thoughts anyways
Uh nope only one and I did my very best for 9months
Ok so I have no choice but to explain how a personal business owner I work for IS my business and how it affects me: so listen up, it's why I'm in my "possible" scenario..Are you hired as upper management? Do you sign the checks? The answer is no. Then it’s none of your damn business how the owner conducts his business. If he wants it done a certain way that’s how you do it because your the employee not the employer. Period
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Your totally right. The guy, despite I only see him for little bit unless he gets rained out, He's just one of those people that very hard to work for..suppose gets under my skin one too many times. There's more to it just don't wanna get into it but I know the pros I have there vs the bad. This really did start with my job security being threatened 2weeks ago and just kinda ran with it...he tells me otherwise but I don't feel any better about it just cause he "says" so. I suppose I'm more or less keeping my eyes open "in case" I'm out of a job all of a sudden. (kinda hard to make sense of my point without me getting into the situation)
this is the best advise in the 4pages of discussion LOL. and Yes i figured this out already so If I do switch jobs, I'm def staying away from private small business owners no matter how "good" things look and sound. I hate getting involved in people's personal crap or business junk. I just want to go to work and work!!! I don't care to be involved in others' business and logistics but when this kinda stuff happens/comes up due to their poor decisions, well now I'm part of it and not much I can do but just be "on guard" while doing my job.I'd stop working for small time operations that only have a handful of people and where you see the boss every day. It makes work too personal and I don't bring work home with me. I leave that shit with my toolbox at 3pm.
Single point failure kind of jobs will always suck.
without going further into it, he spoke and we agreed on these things otherwise I wouldn't have taken job!How do you know he "hired you to take over the shop".
Not nitpicking, but how was that fact conveyed to you?
Maybe he has insight to the installer/contractor dude that he hasn't shared with you?
In 3 weeks he got 9 weeks behind? He's a great salesman to be able to do that
easy for you to say bud, you have no idea. I promise you I would have done it...traveled without telling my wife I was away from the shop but he is just not that kinda person that I will go out of my way for and do that. I've done it before ( very very risky though if my wife had an attack and needed me at home that day) but only for people who truly weren't greedy and selfish. If you would, good for you but I doubt it after several months of seeing what I've seen in himSo instead of helping him get out of a
Bind, you instead say I’ve got one and only job here and don’t expect me to step out and help you when shit gets tuff?
Bingo!As an employee, every company I worked for, big or small, was run by the biggest idiots on the planet.
As a skilled tradesman, I knew more than anyone I worked with or for.
I was always worth more than the next guy, or more than I made.
All of us can say the same things. Its how we deal with it that makes the difference.