Any chance of on top of the tie rod? I wouldn't go under unless you build a skid for it. Off parallel WILL bend the tie rod. Even if the mounts/cylinder eyes do allow for some misalignment. That 3/4" will proportionally increase when the cylinder is stroked all the way out.
Not sure what your method is, but there's a couple ways to do it. Obviously, there's the mid-line approach... With the cylinder at half stroke and steering centered, weld on your mounts. I've also seen people Turn the steering to full lock (or close to it) and weld mounts with the cylinder collapsed. Chances are you'll steer tighter in one direction than the other that way, though.
I think the best way (and those running hydraulic assist steering setups can correct me here, please, if I am off base and/or unclear) is to measure the travel of your tie rod from lock to lock... Turn your steering all the way one direction, make aligned marks on the axle and tie rod - one chalk mark/tape line on the axle, and another on the tie rod in line with it. Turn your steering all the way to full lock the other direction and make a tape line aligned with the mark on the axle. Measure the distance between the tape lines, and that is your tie rod travel.
Since you have an 8" ram, subtract 8" from the total tie rod travel, and that is how far the steering is capable of "over-travelling" the cylinder. Split that difference so your ram is the stop...if your knuckles hit the stops before the ram hits full travel, it will rearrange your mounts very quickly.
Example: you have 10" travel from lock to lock at the tie rod. Subtracting the 8" stroke of the cylinder, you have 2" left over of tie rod travel. You can either a) extend the cylinder 4" and weld your mounts, or b) turn your wheels in one direction so your marks are misaligned by 4", then weld with the cylinder collapsed.
If your ram travels more than your steering, I'd suggest putting a stroke limiter in the cylinder. Or...like I said, the ram will remove your mounts for you. Or reconfigure your tie rod.
EDIT: You could weld it off parallel with the tie rod if you have the axes through the eyelets horizontal with the ground/perpendicular to the tie rod travel...what I mean is that the bolts would be pointing front to back, instead of up and down. Otherwise, they will bind and bend something. But, welding it off parallel will limit it's effective travel when compared to it being perfectly parallel.