No offense man but your personal experience bias is showing.
I mentor kids every day who have no idea what these things you speak of even mean.
What if you grow up in an apartment and there are no yards to mow. Not that you could anyway because no one you know has EVER owned a lawn mower.
Everyone around you has lived in the same spot your entire life because they know no different. No one is moving.
He's 14 in your example. He cant rive has never owned a bicycle, or learned to ride one, he can only go where he walks. Has no tools or skills.
But man, this due a few years older said you could run some weed for him and make a couple hundred quick. If you are real enough they might let you carry the good stuff in a month or two...
The point is to STOP this cycle....
It's why I have volunteered hundreds of hours to Big Brothers and Big Sisters, Call Me Mr., and Habitat for Humanity.
Psalm 82
Rescue the weak and the needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked.” They have neither knowledge nor understanding, they walk about in darkness;